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Adult Dating: The Dropout Rate  

chuxter14 50M  
6 posts
8/3/2015 9:26 am
Adult Dating: The Dropout Rate

I've had a lot of great experiences on VisionPersonals.com over the years, but -- I'm wondering about what other people's experiences are with the dropout rate?

For every cool person I meet (and I've met a lot of great people on VisionPersonals.com), it seems like there's a person who just "drops out." You're supposed to meet, you send emails back and forth... and then the person just disappears into the horizon.

Like everybody else, I have my share of faults, but I'm not flaky. I know that sometimes real life gets in the way and that everybody gets busy, but... I'm wondering if you've ever had any experience in which you were supposed to meet someone and then the person disappeared.

I tend to think it's because the person found somebody they want to meet instead. Or maybe she's just dipping her toe in the adult dating world-pool and seeing what's there.

But: it's weird. When I talk to somebody about meeting her, and she says she wants to meet me and then vanishes, I always feel funny about it.

What do you feel?

guy4frot 64M
2811 posts
8/3/2015 10:16 am

 I've had that too. Usually there's some reason that's become apparent, like anxiety or pain from previous relationships. I think the reality is that female members often have multiple dialogues running and a good conversation is no guarantee of a physical meeting.

I've come across a few women who have used VisionPersonals.com as a way of boosting their ego – enjoying the feeling of being in demand.

At first I took it personally but now I see it as saying more about the other party and my expectations are somewhat lower.
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