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you cheated your self
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you cheated your self You Lied, mislead and manipulated to get sex... Well done good job. another notch under the belt... What you don't realize is you cheated your self. when You do this you cheat yourself. Not so long ago I had already planned to have sex with someone, was planning to make an arrangement for once or twice a month at least, but he lied about things, he lied about being willing to play by my rules, to respect my wishes. He played on words saying and implying he wanted more. when he did tried to do things I had asked him not to, it shut me down, made me distant, took away my pleasure, excitement of the moment and made me realize he really had no respect for me, he was not into pleasing, He was not truly passionate, He used that, to get what he wanted, the selfish shined through by the second time we had sex., When it came to my attention that he was doing this, it changed my desires toward him. well needless to say, I Have no tolerance for those kinds of games. I have no tolerance for selfish or for a Man that would want me to do anything I am not comfortable with. that would show me so little respect to keep doing things I asked not to. that was ignoring my body language and my voice, that would put him self above my peace of mind. that would treat me with such disregard and disrespect. yes he got the sex... twice and lost out on a cautious on going sex. Lost out on me trusting him. Lost out on the possibility of what could have been, He lost out on the best of me. He lost out on the freedom of my sexual personality growing. MORE THAN ALL THAT HE CHEATED HIMSELF.... He WILL NEVER FIND what he truly desires, what his heart truly wants, liven a lie, playing game emotional games, trying to dominate this way. He will never find the women that enjoys him fully for his self. who he really is. To me that is sad, just as sad as the man married 20 yrs and his wife doesn't know he has a foot fetish. that's not how things should be. a real man respects his partner. Doesn't try to dominate her into things she is not comfortable with, does not want. I don't mind my man handling me, scooping me up with that passionate kiss or even just a hug, pulled in close, I am just saying there is a difference between that and the other... HE CHEATED HIMSELF..... the truth, the core of who you are will always show. You have to be truthful with yourself and true to your heart. experiment sure but be honest about it. not only with your self but with others , don't cheat your self or allow anyone to cheat you... I am always changing, yet I am always the same MY FINGERs HAVE NO FILTER --- me |
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The problem with jerks/assholes, in the context of your blog, is that they see the destination and don't realize they are on a journey, that while they got the glass of water, there is a whole well they could draw from. Many will read this and understand. Many will read this and say "if I could be so lucky, I wouldn't screw it up"... unfortunately, to those whom could take heed, and the person in question, the point is moot, because their gains are immediate, self-gratification, at the expense of others.
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"A real man respects his partner", truer words were never spoken. Damn... you are a lot to loose out on! Save a horse, ride a cowboy!!
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9/30/2015 6:47 am |
ok so what i gathered was he chose to say and do whatever it took for him to satisfy his carnal desires,and you're pissed off yes.i apologize but there are alot of people out there.not all of them are men,people who only want to take what they think will make them happy instead of working for what will make them happy.
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I am not pissed off, disappointed in him yes... More disappointed in myself even more, for not seeing it sooner. but the truth is I wasn't looking for it. I suppose I trusted he was telling the truth about things. I really had no desire to look for anything else. my instinct said something's amidst. but eah I just ignored them... yes to fulfill my own desire's, a little instant gratification on my part I suppose also, other wise I would have listen to them and moved on... Maybe I was just hoping they were wrong a little to much, I did enjoy his company. so Yes I played a part in the situation. No I am not mad. and well lets face it, the first time must have been good cause I did go back for more : ) ... no I don't believe I will be going back again, this is not the kind of man I want in my life or the kind of sex, relationship etc I want. I am always changing, yet I am always the same MY FINGERs HAVE NO FILTER --- me
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Well stated. I have a poor memory; therefore, I don't bullshit! Love the pic of you in the window -exciting  Anything done half-heartedly will net you an equivalent result. ~CH
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