Reset Password
If you've forgotten your password, you can enter your email address below. An email will then be sent with a link to set up a new password.
Cancel
Reset Link Sent
If the email is registered with our site, you will receive an email with instructions to reset your password. Password reset link sent to:
Check your email and enter the confirmation code:
Don't see the email?
  • Resend Confirmation Link
  • Start Over
Close
If you have any questions, please contact Customer Service
Hookup, Find Sex or Meet Someone Hot Now

How many actually meet ...  

bluelad24 62M
34 posts
3/24/2015 7:24 am
How many actually meet ...


Ok so ,million dollar question..
Given that this is basically a sex site,where adults are suppose to chat with the intention of meeting up for mutualsexual pleasure....
Why do so many ladies have trouble actually meeting guys ??
Apparently given the number of horny men on here,you would of thought that it would be the easiest thing in the world to do .

RandC1971 71M/68F  
64 posts
3/24/2015 8:15 am

lots of fakers on here

My Blog https://VisionPersonals.com.com/blog/RandC1971/index.html?oid=202005348_44755#VisionPersonals.com?{}


rm_PrisicaK 49F
479 posts
3/24/2015 8:25 am

Because I can get just a dick next door, I want something specific. Because most men are married or have girlfriends and can't host and are too cheap to spring for a room or are scared about credit card charges but happily risk a Public Indecency charge. I myself risk a prostitution charge because its not about what it is but what it looks like. Because condoms are dealbreakers


bluelad24 62M
81 posts
3/24/2015 8:54 am

So many women/couples on here asking for meets,yet cant.
Seems so weird that people come on these sites for fun only to be messed about.
Don't get me wrong,I'm not expecting people to have sex with everyone that asks,,but surely it has to be easier than it is right now.

I've also noticed that the people who read my blog are not in the UK .


FullOn4U 58M
20399 posts
3/24/2015 11:00 am

When you take away the inactive profiles and the fake profiles then you have only about 20% of the profiles left.

Of these half are not here to meet, just for the ego boost.

Of the 10% remaining, half will want hubby to watch, and maybe join in.

Of the remaining 5%, half are cheating on hubby - that might be your thing, it isn't mine.

So if you want a single woman who will meet you're down to about 2.5% of the profiles.

Then you have to consider whether they are acceptable to you (let's say half), whether you are acceptable to them (let's be generous and say half) and the distance between you... we're down to about 0.5%, tops.

Then you have to consider whether they are seeing anyone by the time you find them! You're down to a quarter of a percent.

Which would be fine if there were loads of women on the site, but in the UK there's just 85,000.

That gives you 212 women to choose from - you've probably emailed them already

And over two hundred doesn't seem to bad either, until you remember that for every woman on here there's at least twenty men!

You're above average (aren't we all) , so that might be OK but then you consider that because the ratio of men to women so favours women, women can and will ask for the sky. Which is why women say "9 inches or don't bother me" on their profiles.

I haven't peeped, but the chances are you don't have a nine inch cock... and that is why you won't get laid

Now it isn't quite that bad, but the site does take some getting used to and you do have to work at it, but it does work.

By the way, your comment about people reading your blog not being from the UK is just indicative of how few people in the UK are active on the site.


bluelad24 replies on 3/24/2015 4:42 pm:
Thank you FullOn
However,what you have written is mainly directed at why I am not getting any action (lack of 9" Dick probably),so unless all women/couples on here are after 9"and above,why are they struggling to find fulfillment ?
Surely there must be an abundance of "average" horny men willing to bang anything with a pulse ...given this fact to be probably 70% true,why are women being stood up on such a regular basis.
Are most men that are lucky enough to get an invite either married or attached and cannot therefore meet at the given time ? If this is the case then why not just rearrange the meet,rather than just go quiet and ignore any future messages sent to them.

FullOn4U 58M
20399 posts
3/25/2015 2:22 am

I've never stood anyone up, so I can't be sure, but I suspect that it's a case of "seemed like a good idea at the time".

People get horny and "do things" they wouldn't normally do all the time.

As I said, you have to decide whether someone is appropriate for you - your limits are probably elastic and might change according to how long it is since you got laid, how much booze you've had, what kind of mood you are in.

Also there are the people looking for an ego boost - they never really intend to meet, even if they say they will. In order to get the full ego boost they need to know that someone is prepared to meet, to fuck. Similar to these people are the ones who think they are "daring" being on a sex site - they are playing chicken with themselves, choosing to believe that they live a risque life style, but never quite committing to it...

And then there's all the people in relationships who want to cheat on their partners but when it gets real decide they won't.

I also suspect that a lot of people have a sense of entitlement - most of the people who approach them won't measure up (not necessarily literally). They hold out for something better... unfortunately they want to punch above their weight - "something better" wants something better than them


bluelad24 replies on 8/20/2015 5:13 am:
then as the process continues, less people meet, the site then has to do something to continue to make money and seem "attractive", which then increases the number of fake/inactive profiles, which in turn effects the figures you quoted earlier.
If women feel there is no chance of getting laid, then they either leave,just chat or only blog.

Become a member to create a blog