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Killer Men  

rm_maam2you 51F
48 posts
2/8/2015 8:31 am
Killer Men

"Men are afraid women will laugh at them. Women are afraid men will kill them." M. Atwood.

I came across that quote today and it really hit home. In my case, it is one hundred percent true. It is the reason I go through so much trouble screening guys. I know MOST of the guys on VisionPersonals.com are safe, but as with everything, the select few ruin it for everyone else. The problem is, know which ones are likely to be a killer and which ones are just looking to get laid.

The anonymity of the internet has led the men on VisionPersonals.com to believe that manners don't matter. They do matter and they matter in a big way. If a guy is rude, crude, and oversteps on the internet, there is a better than average chance that they will do it in real and women know this.

I've been shooting guys down left and right because of bad manners. Many of them start off with assumptions that put them on bad footing from the start. JUST BECAUSE A WOMAN IS ON VisionPersonals.com DOES NOT MEAN SHE IS WILLING TO FUCK YOU. You have to EARN the right to get in her panties.

If a woman posts a picture of her tits, it does not mean she's easy. It means she knows her target audience. She gets more views and has a better chance of getting what she wants. DON'T ASSUME ANYTHING.

The women on VisionPersonals.com are daughters, sisters, mothers, and yes, sometimes wives. When a guy sends a message to a woman, he needs to think about how he would want the women in his life treated and he needs to behave accordingly. For all he knows, he is talking to a woman in his life. Women will be more open to chatting and will at least give a guy a chance if he comes across as courteous.

The best way to earn the right into our panties is be courteous and have good manners. Nice guys have an advantage on here because there is such a contrast between the nice guys and the ass hats. Don't be an ass hat.

1seeking1 58F
3767 posts
2/8/2015 8:39 am

 So agree courtesy and manners go a long way, and there are nice male members.


boobwhisperer69 61M  
8322 posts
2/8/2015 8:39 am

 Well said!


vabeachhotwife 63M/62F
394 posts
2/8/2015 9:00 am

 Posts like this need to be required reading for all of the guys. Yes, the anonymity of on-line does open the door to a lot of jerks and fakes. And the remainder are left dealing with the consequences. We, too, have to expend a bit of time trying to weed out the ass hats (as you put it).
And for the benefit of the decent guys out there........ It's not overlooked or unappreciated. You don't have to be a "bad boy" all the time. Not all women are only looking for that sort. But it can be understandable when the good ones get a bit frustrated after being shot down just because he'd rather behave like a gentleman.


northshoretake2 50M  
1626 posts
2/8/2015 10:21 am

 Nicely put.

As for the push back, I'm reminded of a reply I once received from a blogger, n499:

This is a public site with the freedom of expression being a basic tenet and as such all comments and interpretations are welcome [post 3565253]
Happiness is not having what you want, but wanting what you have.


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