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Expectations  

rm_maam2you 51F
48 posts
2/3/2015 9:36 am
Expectations

I have high expectations of people apparently. I didn't think I did. I just thought everyone would want to know about the person they were contacting and wrote my profile accordingly. Most guys don't seem to care what I want or wrote. The are doing the equivalent of cold calling in the hopes of getting a bite. Sometimes I do bite.

My profile pretty much tells what I want. I hand guys the key to my panties and most of them don't bother to figure out how it works. I recently had a 'date' with someone who did read the profile, but there were some red flags I chose to ignore in favor of getting laid. They weren't danger flags, just ones indicating our expectations were different. I met him in public and chose to ignore even more flags when I realized he was looking for a woman to dominate him. That is not me. I'm forceful and opinionated, but I am not a dominate in the bedroom.

He had expectations, because he though I would dominate him. I had the expectation that he'd be a decent lay. We were both wrong. And we were both disappointed.

Disappointing sexual encounters are why I come and go from this site. I go through the trouble of screening guys and then meeting them in a safe place. Then I get with them in private and many times, they just don't do it for me. I'm not that hard to figure out. My puss is sensitive. Some guys seem to be able to breath on it and make me cum, but a recent 'date' couldn't make it happen with his mouth and fingers.

Encounters like that make me wonder why I'm on the site. If I have a couple of those in a row, I drop it. It isn't worth the time and effort I put into screening the guys if it's going to lead to getting naked with a dude who's a dud. I'd rather play with BOB and know I'm going to get off. He doesn't expect me to shave either.

I'm not going to lower my expectations though. Some guys out there have lived up to them. Others have surpassed them and those guys are the reason I keep coming back to the site.

TnkPink 53M
8 posts
2/4/2015 1:12 pm

 Well I'm in the same boat. I know what I like and I don't deviate a whole lot. I'm pretty dam particular. Which sometimes is a bad thing, well for me anyways. I'm the poster-boy for NICE GUYS FINISH LAST. But as popeye said "That's what I am, and that's all that I am" some guys do still have morals. Chivalry is not dead ladies.
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