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Blogs > Found_Relaxing > 7 Yrs of College Dwn the Drain

You're Not my Mom (poll for the guys)  

Found_Relaxing 67M
156 posts
4/16/2015 4:26 am
You're Not my Mom (poll for the guys)
This actually happened.

On a scale from 1 to 5, where 1 is a health and fire safety violation and a 5 is a professionally decorated and cleaned luxury place, I am a 3.75. My sink is empty, my dishwasher is empty, my bed is made, there is a little clutter, and the place smells good because I use some of those electric air fresheners. Nice, no bugs.

So I was visited the other day by an attractive woman who at some point started to tidy up my place. She rearranged some of the stuff in my cabinets, cleared off my counter, cleared the wally mart bags out from the space below the sink.

So the question is: what would you do if this happened to you?
tell her to stop and leave
tell her to stop.
Shrug and thank her for the help and move it all back when she leaves
Shrug and thank her and take it as an act of kindness rather than an act of control
Shrug and take it as a sign of control. not good
thank her warmly, let it be.
other (describe)


sphxdiver 74M
21063 posts
4/16/2015 11:49 am

 As for the kitchen and dining area I have no problem with an extra hand.

But as far as the rest of the place, it's a good way to lose a hand.
Everything is in it's place, and i know where everything is at.
things don't need to be placed elsewhere or messed with.


sweet_VM 65F
81699 posts
4/16/2015 8:45 am

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kittyliquor519 58M
2730 posts
4/16/2015 7:13 am

 Leave a $20 on the table and say "thank you, see you next week"
Everyone is on a different plane of intelligence. Some people's plane has not taken off yet!!


cumonbi 64M/64F  
28 posts
4/16/2015 5:36 am

 I'd bend her over fuck her hard and tell her you don't have time for that.


justskin1 72M
13175 posts
4/16/2015 5:14 am

 My answer would be based in part on how long and often you have been having her over to your place and if overnights are regular.
If you have known her for less than two months I would count it as a form of control and total disregard for you. . Tell her to stop and drop her as she has no sense of respect for you. More than 6 mos and having her over for overnights at least once a week I would thank her for wanting to be helpful but please stop as you have things right where you want them.
If you see me in the real world, come say "Hi Justskin."

I always behave. Preferably not well.


snowbird817 61F  
337 posts
4/16/2015 4:57 am

 I'd tell her (not so politely) to cease and desist! Then I would ask her to leave ...immediately!! And people wonder why I don't host right away...I would have thrown a fit if someone came into MY home and started messing with MY stuff.
~Snow~


Found_Relaxing replies on 4/16/2015 5:41 am:
You know, I never thought of it quite that way. I am pretty sure if I had gone to her place and did the same thing she would feel a bit violated.

I wonder if there is not some OCD underlying it. She does seem to be a little nervous.

Evidently I am not keeping her worn out enough...

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