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Lace126 64F
13 posts
12/17/2014 6:32 am
judgement


I have found that because one is on certain website that men feel that it's appropriate for them to be able to say or use certain language based on Venus in which one is met. I feel that we as women, mothers, daughters, teachers, students, and even women of higher education have the Sam e needs, wants and flamboyant side, but regardless, I/ we still need to respect ourselves and expect the same from the man / person that one is engaging with or in, the same woman/ lady one may meet at the grocery store, bank or PTSA are viewed in a different light but have the same character and behavior of the women on the site. Whatever we do or don't do do not allow as anyone to demean or disrespect you for being a person and human.

tedbear472 76M
807 posts
12/17/2014 6:50 am

Where have you been? I like reading bio's first to see what type of woman she is before contacting her. Then I look at the photos. If she is posting a photo of her vagina spread apart far enough to drive a Mack Truck in, it is doubtful that I will contact her. I want to meet a lady that I would not be ashamed to walk down the street with holding hands and maybe even a little PDA.
Hugs and Kisses Ted


fizzell52 71M
321 posts
12/17/2014 7:25 am

well i always like to be polite until told otherwise by the woman what her preferences are.


burblesback07 42M
531 posts
12/17/2014 7:41 am

Headache !


4freedom42 81M/83F
41 posts
12/31/2014 12:27 am

Thanks for the heartfelt comments on respect. In our observation, it's the men who do most of the misbehaving in tis regard. Altho we may be unjust in this view, it's an observation we share after long experience. Hugs to you as we go into the New Year. P&M


fukwutyouhurd 55M  
59 posts
1/29/2015 4:46 am

I hear you sista..


fukwutyouhurd 55M  
59 posts
4/6/2015 4:16 am

Amen!


Lace126 64F

1/25/2016 10:50 am

Happy New Years...

I haven't written or even read my blot and very frankly forgot about it until now, it is a pleasant surprise to read the comments concerning respect, of course it is a sex site and I appreciate the site, we all have our reason for becoming a member, this site has help me heal after being married for almost 20 years to learn that my husband was cheating.
Respect of one's self brings respect from other on a generaI note, but there is always that 10% that will attempt to classify you and disrespect you. I have had my share of them and I have in no uncertain terms disclosed that you can or I will tolerate being disrespected...my profile nor my photos suggest such.

Thank those of you who read and commented on my blot...my intention was to close my account on New Years Eve, but I was working so I hide it for a minute... after I made the announcement of deleting my profile I received so very nice messsges.

I also want to thank the men on here that don't disrespect the woman that is on the site... and I ask the women that they don'the disrespect themselves in such a way.

I am a business minded woman, part time college student and work hard doing both those things alone says I do not deserve to be disrespected

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mdfreakaleak 63M
43 posts
2/10/2016 5:23 am

You have my respect sista..


supertime692004 56M  
100 posts
5/17/2016 11:44 am

No woman should ever be disrespected, it seems some people think just because it is a sex site they can be idiots. Respect the woman if she says shecwsnts you to talk to her a specific way than that is ok, but with her and her alone. Just my honest opinion


Lace126 64F

1/14/2017 2:18 pm

Happy New Years to my wondY (erful friend and friends I have yet to meet, It has been awhile since I last blogged, I still reserve the thought of judge not least be judged. Thank you for dropping by and stop by and send me a message Happy New Years...smooches.


Lace126 64F

7/26/2017 12:11 pm

Greeting folks, I realize it's been a while since I blogged but I'm back, I haven't been on a lot just here and there, I have chatted with a few interested people and blocked a lot more, I just not allowing anyone to pre judge me and disrespect me because I am on thi site.

I have met some very interesting men on here however most that reaches out are white, I have learned that our black men do not know how to date, they Don't know how to ask or plan a date, my beautiful black me tell me how you introduce yourself to a women and ask her out, what would you say, where would you take her and would you expect sex at the end of the evening.


xxPanxx 65M  
31 posts
4/27/2021 9:09 am

hello kiss , damn look you Pretty


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