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I shoulda changed the stupid locks...  

xSativaMaximuSx 51F
122 posts
12/10/2014 9:51 pm
I shoulda changed the stupid locks...
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xSativaMaximuSx
s2ndegree 65M
9800 posts
12/10/2014 11:20 pm

 Selfish,single minded, self righteous I mean isn't he embarking on a path to a new and shiny bliss without you?After all that self improvement did he at least say hay baby you look great or was it I have to tell you something.I am a Mormon and this is janice!.How much time will be spent thinking if he is at work or with her.I am sorry.The bit about getting yourself in order and physical changes and all had me cheering you on.Then step down again?It doesn't matter that we're strangers.I am still human and I hope that this has you salvaging some thing and won't totally wreck you!
goodluck!JB
Using more than all the road!


xSativaMaximuSx replies on 12/11/2014 6:13 am:
no, hun, you are wrong.
you only know what you have read and not the whole story, so you cannot judge, and I realize that this type of arrangement is not for everyone nor is it easy to understand.

You misunderstand my words about working on myself...in order to be ready to accept the love that I have with him now, I had to be ready. this is a story about my past and how my history has shaped me...and yes, how this new chapter is impacting me.

but more importantly, this is a journey we are allowing each other to take...and certainly not something to be taken lightly.

CynicusMaximus 52M
1844 posts
12/11/2014 4:20 am

 You're such a beautiful woman, love.

I can never replace you, but you're right. We've been fighting off the world and it's time for us to enjoy a bit of an interlude.

I'm glad you found your little piece of happiness in this too. I know we went off the script here, but I know that I'm never losing my connection with you.


xSativaMaximuSx replies on 12/11/2014 6:14 am:
you fuck wit me, you stuck wit me.

CynicusMaximus 52M
1844 posts
12/11/2014 6:54 am
    Quoting s2ndegree:
    Selfish,single minded, self righteous I mean isn't he embarking on a path to a new and shiny bliss without you?After all that self improvement did he at least say hay baby you look great or was it I have to tell you something.I am a Mormon and this is janice!.How much time will be spent thinking if he is at work or with her.I am sorry.The bit about getting yourself in order and physical changes and all had me cheering you on.Then step down again?It doesn't matter that we're strangers.I am still human and I hope that this has you salvaging some thing and won't totally wreck you!
    goodluck!JB
Why do you even bother saying, Good Luck, at the end when you're just trying to throw a monkey wrench in everything?

My wife is more than capable of grabbing what she needs out of life and i admire her ability to identify herself as a woman brave enough to head into this eyes wide open.
Assumptions aside, did you ever consider the fact that i have never told her she is anything less? Assumptions aside have you ever considered that isn't just all about me?
Maybe, you shouldn't assume my wife can't make a decision for herself, dude?

I've seen you on both blogs trying to paint me as some dude just trying to convince two women to let me me stick my dick in them.
But whatever, people have to throw out their two cents and walk away.

You mad, bro?


xSativaMaximuSx replies on 12/11/2014 7:26 am:
oh, he mad...

luciegirl2 55F  
508 posts
12/11/2014 9:55 am

 Aww sweetie it's a big step and of can be a wild and fun ride, just remember be honest and upfront with all involved. No secrets,because once you do it will bring down what you have. Been there done that. So no matter what anyone feels NO SECRETS, having a poly relationships is a beautiful thing when done right. The best to all involved


xSativaMaximuSx replies on 12/11/2014 10:10 am:
I think that is what we have been working so hard on is just being honest and open and sometimes too honest and open. Regardless, we are learning about each other and rebuilding some damaged bonds in this process...which is a bonus.

Thank you for your support of us and our choices, Lucie.

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