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Feeding the Monster on Friday  

xSativaMaximuSx 51F
122 posts
11/21/2014 5:47 pm
Feeding the Monster on Friday
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CynicusMaximus 52M
1844 posts
11/21/2014 6:16 pm

 You're absolutely right... I am NOT going to be doing dishes anymore for your validation.


xSativaMaximuSx replies on 11/21/2014 9:59 pm:
Pfft...clean the garage.

Wowmedic 42M
48 posts
11/22/2014 12:25 pm

 I remember when my wife walk out on me I felt like I wasn't worthy of anything. I started talking to myself and hoping she'd come back only to find that he banging a sailor.

Now I'm on the fuckitol path and I just do what's right by me.


xSativaMaximuSx replies on 11/22/2014 1:44 pm:
I went on a 'trampage' after my divorce...I totally feel ya. Sometimes I needed validation. Sometimes I needed to be held. Sometimes I needed sex. And sometimes, well sometimes I just wanted a free dinner...

But it is part of the healing process, Medic! at some point you will get to a more even keel.

TicklePlease 56F  
13851 posts
11/22/2014 8:01 pm

 gah, it's possible we're mentally related!

I used to think that if someone doesn't like/want/carefor/whatever me... then it's probably my fault and it's deserved for some unremembered reason. Or if they cheated on me that it was because I failed at providing them with whatever it was that they looked elsewhere for.

Now I realize that no.... it's not me. It's them. All I can do is do my best by me and mine and realize that not everybody that says they have my back, really has it.

Love this. Thanks.


xSativaMaximuSx replies on 11/23/2014 12:01 am:
I totally agree...I just don't know if its a age thing, a transitional thing...maybe from teenage thinking to adult thinking...who knows!
All i know is that i am in a much better place.

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