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A musing from The Edge  

HaloBlue64 65F  
71 posts
3/13/2016 9:08 pm
A musing from The Edge

Good evening, (well it's late evening for me at any rate) I've just spent a little more time browsing through the search areas. And I've changed my search criteria yet again, thinking that I may be barking up the wrong tree so to speak. I used to have a wide age range-from 40 to 65 in my searches. Lately tho I've wondered what I would actually have in common with someone that much younger than me other than great sex. But knowing what pleases me, a nice body just isn't enough. Great to look at, hey I love eye-candy as well as the next! But for me personally, there has to be more. I've always known most of my attraction to someone is my sense of them and a mental stimulation. Their personal scent, the way their skin feels underneath my fingertips, the low rumbling of pleasure that's nearly a purr when you're pleased just holding me close and we're talking about nothing in particular, but just enjoying each others presence. My question is this: how do you feel about the age difference? I'm curious to know where others draw the line, or if after a certain age there's even a line to be drawn? Does it really boil down to what two people want, or is a big difference always destined to be just a fling to be remembered fondly? Please let me know how you see it from your side, I'd really like to know. Doing better here, and spring approaches. As always, X's n O's, Halo

kzoopair 73M/71F
25831 posts
3/14/2016 3:52 pm

 I think I have more in common with someone at least near my own age usually, but I don't think I'd let it stop me if I met someone I cared about who was much younger or older.

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HaloBlue64 replies on 3/14/2016 7:47 pm:
Hi there KZ! That's what I felt for the longest time, and normally I end up dating men younger. There have been a few older, but not many. I find a lot of men my age are looking for younger women too though. Perhaps I over think the whole thing lol! Hope all's well on your end. Getting better here. The Doc has ok'd me to gingerly try walking on my foot again. It's very small now, and I'm still getting used to it, but getting there nonetheless. X's n O's Halo

camper789 69M
2380 posts
3/16/2016 8:30 am

 Good morning. I generally keep the age range around 10 years or so, be it older or younger. There are more similar life experiences that we can relate to when there's not an extreme age gap.
Good to hear that you're starting to feel better.


funonestl 68M
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17 posts
2/25/2017 9:06 am

 I like to keep it within 10 years older or younger. I really am attracted to older women as much as the younger in that range.


smokey02421 70M
4 posts
3/10/2017 7:13 am

 To me it really depends on if you have anything between you' I'm 62 and on here I keep getting messages from these 20 somthing year olds and I have to sit and wonder what their wanting with an old fart like me ? my personal cut off bottom age is 35 found I have more in common than sex ( not that it may be nice ) but those past 30 seem to at least have their heads screwed on tight their in to more than just sex and out the door their more in to romantic dinners cuddleing, kissing, and even just sitting in each others arms and in general just enjoying each others company, sex or not in my sitution that's what I'm looking for FWB and maybe more.


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