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Married Men  

Lady4OralAction 65F
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65 posts
10/8/2014 5:05 pm
Married Men

I just read another member's blog post about married men whining about sexless marriages. It prompted me to think about the situation and my own recent experience. Having been married just short of 30 years, I know marriage isn't always "happily ever after." It's a huge commitment that takes a lot of work and not everyone is up for it.

All of us know about couples who have open marriages, both play with others. Then, there are swingers who play with other couples and other individuals in threesomes, etc. I also know of couples where one person gives the other verbal permission to have sex outside of the marriage, due to health reasons, lack of interest, different libidos, etc. I'm sure all of us know of at least one or two couples where one person knows the other is cheating and by unspoken agreement, simply looks the other way.

Like the other blogger here, I've read profiles where married guys say they're married and the most common reason given is lack of sex within their marriages. I've been approached by married men ever since I started online dating. All of them have admitted their marital status in their profiles and in the very first emails to me. I'm sure there are some who pretend to be single, but I never knew about it personally until I experienced it not too long ago.

I encountered a guy who stated that he was single on his profile. We talked by phone and exchanged emails for weeks, arranging and cancelling meetings due to circumstances. Finally, we agreed upon a day and time to meet for coffee. The night before we were to meet, I received an email from him confessing to being married, here on a temporary assignment only. He said he didn't intend to deceive me and hoped that I still wanted to meet him.

I wasn't angry, just very disappointed. I decided this wasn't someone I wanted to meet for coffee or engage in a sexual encounter with. For weeks the guy led me to believe he was single and yet said he didn't intend to deceive me. I told him that there was a clear intent to deceive when he posted that he was single on his profile and then misled me for weeks. I got several more requests to meet after telling him that. I did not and the more I think about it, the happier I am that I didn't meet up with him. A few days later, I noticed that he had viewed my profile so I checked out his. You guessed it, he still had his marital status as single!

Nuke_N_Naughty 52M/54F

10/10/2014 12:30 am

 It's guys like that that give the rest of us such a bad name and I HATE it!!
Dennis (Idahonuke)
To read about myongoing adventures and journey into the lifestyle:
[blog Idahonuke]


ChildOfThe1970s 57M
32 posts
10/20/2014 5:32 pm

 I just updated my profile to emphasize that I am not married or attached.

"He said he didn't intend to deceive me and hoped that I still wanted to meet him."

The former is laughable. The latter shows some nerve.


misl 74M
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10 posts
11/3/2014 11:11 pm

 I have been married over forty years and I love my wife very much. She just does not enjoy sex as much anymore. I have not told anyone I'm single, and will never do so, even if it means I'll never get any.


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