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How many times do you allow a person to cancel your plans?  

9INCHFREAKK 43M  
20 posts
11/3/2014 4:18 pm
How many times do you allow a person to cancel your plans?

I wanted to know how many times do you allow a person to cancel your plans before you lose complete interest in them? It's a lot of people in the lifestyle that will set plans to meet a single or a couple only to have the other person or couple their meeting cancel at the last minute. How do people feel when that happens? Especially if you were really looking to meet that person or couple for a meet and greet or a hot exotic time. Now most people in the lifestyle has lives outside of the lifestyle and things come up(work, , etc). But it does become a problem if the person your interested in keeps CONSTANTLY canceling your plans and how many times will you deal with getting cancelled on before you cut the person or couple off?

HappyChick43 52F
1042 posts
11/3/2014 4:28 pm

 Depends on how long you have the patience to wait. Yes, things come up for everyone, but there is a limit and once you've reached it, cut off time, they're probably fucking you around. Move on!

This site is filled with fakes, just out to get a laugh at someone's expense.


40BATS 54F
197 posts
11/3/2014 4:29 pm

 That is a very good question. I think that it shouldn't be measured in the number of times that they cancel, but WHY they cancel. As you have stated, somethings are unavoidable and unforeseen. But there are those that SAY they want to meet, only to "flake out" at the last minute. Being that I am a somewhat introverted person (yeah go figure), I make sure that I intend to meet a person.I don't make plans on meeting and then get cold feet. If anything, there is no harm in at least meeting. You never know what can happen.


sphxdiver 74M
21063 posts
11/3/2014 5:11 pm

 Just like baseball, three strikes and your out !!


joemastro 64M
13 posts
11/30/2014 9:18 am

 three times a charm


libbyyeller 71M/58F

3/16/2017 5:47 am

 Once PERIOD


GoldilockzNBear 69M/40F  
9 posts
8/12/2018 7:07 am

 in general... one time is allowed, (with good reason). more than one and they won't hear from us again. The one possible exception is that if you have already met the person, and know they are for real, then MAYBE a couple of more cancelations. We feel that making a "date" is a commitment, and in reality, very few other things in life are important enough to break a commitment.


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