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What to expect at a House Party...1  

Swingtime1969 67M/50F
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11/2/2014 10:46 pm
What to expect at a House Party...1

A friend here asked me what to expect at a house party, so I devoted some thought and am pasting/posting my series of answers here in case others have been wondering the same. I will welcome hearing the thoughts of others on this subject too.(I would have put this in a forum here, but there is no topic for House Parties.)--Fred
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Re: house parties. Well, there's a period of socializing...sometimes some get-acquainted games. At the Scio party, the hosts had everyone in turn tell two truths about themselves and one lie. Others had to guess the lie. If you guessed wrong you had to take a drink (Could be non-alcohol for designated drivers, etc.) Then some couples were out in the hot tub and some oral sex seemed to be going on out there in the hot tub. Then a younger and very attractive couple started fucking on a mattress that was on the floor in a living room. (Most of us were in the family room.) Then we had to leave as Marla was just dead tired after being up so early for her work. In general at the parties we've experienced guests kind of look to the hosts to get sex activity started somehow. Or, the women, the majority of whom in the lifestyle are bi, get started playing sexually with each other, and then after a time, the men get pulled into the play also. Compared to couple for couple swaps, a party can allow individuals to match up with other individuals; not just with the mate of the person their own mate seems attracted to. At our parties, we make it clear that there are house rules such as no one is expected to be obliged to get into sex play with others. Some couples that are friends of ours like to only fuck their own mate and not swap and that they are just as welcome in our home. We also make it clear that no means no and you should not ask that person again. And, if any prospective play partner requests condom use, it MUST be honored by the other person. We've only ever had one instance where a new couple was giving a bad/kind of low life feeling to me and some of our friends and just just was honest with that couple and told them that we were just not comfortable having them engage in play with the rest of us. I did not ask them to leave and they respected our wishes. I hope this answers your question. But I'm glad to speak to any specifics you are wondering about too.

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