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Am I Doing This Right?  

2sharingiscaring 41M/35F
8 posts
9/2/2014 1:11 pm
Am I Doing This Right?


Been on VisionPersonals.com for a few months now, but we haven't actually met anyone in person. We've talked to ALOT of people, and made some plans, but nothing has ever happened...

We're still very new to all this, but it's starting to feel like there may be a lot of fakes and flakes on here. I wonder if anyone else is finding this, or if it's just how we're doing things?

I don't want to give away too much (i.e. naked pics, sexting) before meeting people in person, but I also don't want to waste anyone's time. For example, I'm flattered when people comment/like our pics, but if you proposition us without reading what we are looking for in our profile, it's a bit rude I think.

So I'm left wondering... What is an appropriate amount of effort to put into VisionPersonals.com? I'm looking forward to things happening, but I don't want it to be my main priority. What's a girl to do?

Gravityless 48M
106 posts
9/2/2014 1:32 pm

You've hit the nail on the head with a couple of points. But if you are patient and sift through, there are some incredible people out there to be met. I left for a while after having a very few but very good experiences in a few years as a member. I've just returned with a whole new attitude to this site. I'm looking for specifics and will be very patient to find what I want. If I don't find it, I won't get frustrated. Not putting huge effort and will enjoy the time I get to spend chatting and meeting new folks, and will be thrilled if it turns into more...


HARDONE_ONT 53M

9/2/2014 1:40 pm

What you have to understand 2sharing is that this site, like many others , is open to everyone and anyone to view, comment, post message ect. Although you might find it rude or disrespectful, this is the nature of sites like this. But you will find decent people as well who you can relate to. You will find your flakes and fakes here and on other sites as well. Welcome to VisionPersonals.com and Good Luck.


XxX69rockrard 55M  
18 posts
9/2/2014 3:12 pm

Be patient.... It will all come together for you two very soon...


2sharingiscaring 41M/35F
1 post
9/2/2014 3:59 pm

Good point Gravityless! We'll just be patient and wait until what we're looking for finds us. No point getting frustrated. So I guess such is the internet and the nature of this site. We'll just continue to enjoy our amazing one-on-one time for now


mindworker1970 53M
328 posts
9/2/2014 5:52 pm

Yep. You do have to put some effort into this site to make it work for you... Weeding through the fakes and flakes is a part of it unfortunatly. Funny thing is, this site is better than some higher profile sites. Just keep at it, don't lower your standards, and things will happen.


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