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Will we being friends, after broke up with FWB?  

naughty10240 54F
231 posts
3/10/2015 1:15 pm

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5/18/2015 2:10 pm

Will we being friends, after broke up with FWB?

Do we waste our time with Friends With Benefits ? Do we need to be friends, after the (Good) broke up ?

l quit contact with my FWB of 2 years recently. We had good friendship and l told him stop being FWB with the polite manner. l met him at an event for business. He does not even say Hi to me!!. l am very surprised and very disappointed to the cold blood response. It was two years of good friendships, l could ignore and forget easily.

Another case, my girlfriend had 14 years of Relationship , not FWB .She and her boyfriend was broke up years ago. The broke up was not the hard wound, and not ugly. They met at Costco store , he came by himself. l went with my girl friend. We confront not very far. He had turned back his face , he had never even waive his hand to us, he walk away very quick. What's a hack of that.

When the relationship does not work or the friendship does not prolong. Do we have to shut down the acquainted ? We shutdown and forget all the good memories that we had together in the past.

l think l know the world well, it's prove that l do not know anything.


coptrainer56 74M
1880 posts
3/10/2015 1:44 pm

I have remained friends with several FWBs over the nine years I have been here. One got married and one moved out of my area. I continue to have contact with them.

Be safe, relax and just have fun!


naughty10240 replies on 3/10/2015 3:18 pm:
l like your comment. l think it should be manner this way.

sunlover022 45M
19 posts
3/10/2015 2:01 pm

While men do handle breakups differently than women do, I think the cause of the coldness in the post-breakup relationships mentioned is more about the difference in how each party felt about the breakup. If the other person doesn't want the relationship to end, it can create a sore spot to be reminded of being dumped by the other person. While some can face it, many cannot and must turn away. That is universal between both Men and Women.


naughty10240 replies on 3/10/2015 8:46 pm:
Friend with benefits , we agree to have sex without commitment.Then the times arrive to cease the connection, the friends should be maintain.
The relationship is another stage of commitment, when the relationship come to the end. The hurts in men and women still remain. But the couple will be friends or not , it's up to the damages of the broke up.

Thanks to your express idea of a man, l like.

dawildthing2014 49M
1 post
5/7/2015 9:40 pm

It's more painful for those men who fell in love with their of 8 yrs, and she wants to end it. Best pure happy relationship I ever had.


naughty10240 replies on 5/8/2015 3:31 pm:
Oh very sorry to hear that. Nature says times will cure everything.

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