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Reject the first date in an appropriate manner!!  

naughty10240 54F
231 posts
11/28/2014 12:49 pm

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Reject the first date in an appropriate manner!!


l think many of us used to meet the stranger before the sensual connection will be made. We meet at the coffee shop or so. Some of them we are clicked , a few or many of them are not a mutual chemistry.

It is not wrong at all ! We can finish the conversation politely or check hand leave quietly and peace.

These are some ideas of the first date and practical when it's not work.

Do- Greeting check hands and talk politely. Looking into each other eyes to show the sincerity. Remember dress appropriate.
Don't - Arrive the meeting time late. If it will be late, let he/she knows ,why you were late , how long will you be there. If the cancel will be made, notice he/she at least an hour in advance.

Do - Wait to finish coffee or meal and paid ( by who it's depend) and say good bye . Say sorry to leave if you have another appointment ( Actually you'd like to get out of here very quick though)
Don't - Talk .text on the phone with another person while dating, if for work make it very minimized. Do not walk back and forth in between coffee/dining table and the door to talk on the phone with other person,even you say sorry -- it is impolite anyway.

Do- pay the bill at least your part of food or coffee. especially men
Don't - leave her or leave him ,like running away from fire. Very rude and your guest will remember you in the bad way.

Do- Leave her or him with decent manner. Check hand leave in good manner .Send her to the car, may be you see her car you may change your mind.
Don't - Run super quick and disappear in 3 seconds , some case even he/she has never say good bye. Just said l have to go. ( Fook you -i said in my mind)

Do- say nice to meet you , but sorry l have something to do after this, thank you.
Don't- say we are not work , you are fat, ugly, not pretty, not handsome, dirty bla bla bla. No need to say any nonproductive words if the first date seem unsatisfied. When we left and we will not follow up positively by phone or emails. Situation shown itself that we loss interested in each other.

Do- If you think the connection could be develop. You can follow up by phone or text. Or at least said about thank you for the meeting and coffee.If he/she do not reply back , it useless to follow up .
Remember man is the hunter, if he ignors you, but you are sure that you were clicked. Girls go to follow up a while, if it is not work : back off honey.
Don't - if you think the date was awful it will not work. You may text or email thanks for the drink or lunch or dinner. You need not to calls or text or emails the unpleasant words, about we do not match , it will not work. We have not chemistry, you are fat and older than the picture. Your dress and appearance was awful . l do not want to connect with you any more. Do not contact me again. YOU could do that if he/she is the stalker or the creeper.

l used to sent a thank you text to a gentleman with BAD manner ."Thank you for a drink last night. It sound good that it is not work. At least l learnt a rude experience."

Everyone has dignity and unique by themselves. Talk great, polished manner is appreciated in every persons.

Great luck and meet only polished manner people.



naughty10240 54F
172 posts
11/28/2014 1:15 pm

l had a bad experience with a man (not gentle though) . At first sight l am realized that it is not work. We walked along the shopping mall next to the beach for a while . Then stop at the coffee shop, l drank a cup of coffee paid by myself. He did not drink anything. We talked very nice about 10 minutes , l think it was nice talking though.
After that he start reading a newspapers. Immediately he said l have to go , my parking ticket is out of time then he ran away. Never say goodbye.

l just stun and shock? Bustard, l paid 4 hours parking ticket to meet the rude person ? It was my first bad experience ever. l was very disappointment and went home..Try to get rid of the bad feeling what l did wrong. l dress decent, nice all over , suitable to the beach environment.

Later on , l download my sexy pictures to my profile . Then the fish eat my bet. He was greeting me again. You could imagine , what he should receive the greeting from me. Yes it was also inappropriate answer , still polite . l imagine he should be shock.

l do not intend to revenge but he walk back to my knife.


Han54boat 71M
11637 posts
11/28/2014 1:31 pm

That is a good list. There are too many people being rude and mean on first dates. What does that buy them being rude. I have been rejected many times but I take the high road and keep the respect.
If the conversation is flowing well with good eye contact, I will ask about meeting again to see the response she gives.
I always see her to her car.


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naughty10240 replies on 11/28/2014 2:03 pm:
Thanks to your positive response and encourage me.
It's sound good that it still has many gentlemen around.

FOREPLAYlover61 62M

11/28/2014 2:16 pm

I had a date a few years ago that would not put down her cell phone for one minute. The texting was almost non stop. She said it was "work related" but on a Saturday night??????


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