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Blogs > Lokin4Company2 > Ramblings of a Gentleman

The STD called "Married"  

Lokin4Company2 53M
66 posts
10/24/2014 8:49 pm
The STD called "Married"
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The "Gentleman"
porterpiper1 57F
3755 posts
10/24/2014 9:01 pm

 You are correct about how self righteous people are, I have dated a married man before and I feel like it wasn't right for me, no sin is greater than the other, whether married or not. It is funny how quick people are to judge others, My profile state that I like honesty. So I want to know if you are married or in a long term relationship, Because I should decide if I want to get involve with someone that is married or in a relationship.


Lokin4Company2 replies on 10/25/2014 9:06 am:
I agree. Honesty and preference is key. Bu the judgmental stuff is necessary. Thanks for your comments.

demonicsexkitten 48F
10694 posts
10/24/2014 10:27 pm

 I'm quite undecided what I think of the topic. On the one hand I believe in staying faithful. On the other hand I've been with married men before, and may again. Those I've known have all had extenuating circumstances that they agonized over and tried for years to work out within their marriage before finally giving up and searching outside the marriage.

Sorry people are attacking you for your choices. Sadly too many people are like that.


Lokin4Company2 replies on 10/25/2014 9:09 am:
I think each person's reasons for being here are their own. And I know that everyone has their own reasons for being interested in somebody. I just think the entire process can be accomplished with less attitude and bitchiness. I appreciate your input and comments. Thank you very much.

TR73018 62M
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10/25/2014 7:16 am

 You have hit the nail on the head! Been there done that and have the T-shirt. What someone else wrote is soo true. That's the way many people are.


spiceyblond 56F
5388 posts
10/25/2014 10:12 am

 Truth be told, a good portion of folks are on here "incognito" because they don't want to be judged for being here in the first place... Judgmental folks will always throw their two cents worth at you, and with this post, you threw them some change back!

Here's my take... we all have our reasons for being here, and when judgments are made, it's a lot like the "real" world... people make judgments because they have nothing better to do. It's my personal choice not to engage in sexual activity with a married man, but not because he's married... it's because I really don't like to share! haha Hope your weekend gets better.... and imho, you're still a gentleman


Lokin4Company2 53M
112 posts
10/25/2014 9:29 pm

 None of my post was about countering someone's choices or right to preference. There's nothing wrong with "preferring" not to get involved with someone who is married. Just like there's nothing wrong with "preferring" blondes, or light complected women, or ample women. A choice is a choice. But there's a difference between me saying I "prefer" a brunette, and me saying I don't like blondes because I think they're stupid. (which I don't). I know I'm looking a bit much into it. I guess it just set me off.
The "Gentleman"


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