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First blog; a clue as to why I act the way I do when we meet
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First blog; a clue as to why I act the way I do when we meet So, I don't believe I've seen anyone else post a Blog, but I like to type up a storm so I think I'll take advantage of it, who's going to read it right? I do believe I've been on here for perhaps 3 or 4 months now, I'd left the site not long after I signed up for about 2 months then came back. WEBCAMS I go on cam here and there, I don't particularly enjoy masturbating myself, so when I go on cam it is not to "get off", there is a certain attention and reassurance I get from the comments I recieve from being on cam that I don't get in real life. I also get a free extension on my Gold membership pretty easily for being on cam occasionally. I don't enjoy cam2cam unless we have communicated somewhat previously and I find you extremely attractive. I am a Gemini, I lose interest/get distracted very quickly. Once I get on cam myself and get bombarded with messages I may lose my focus on you because the viewers questions do entertain me more than watching any guy jack-off. Sorry, I don't care how attractive you are, I will never get-off on cam not even a little bit, this site and the use of webcams is purely entertaining, not pleasurable in the least for me. IRL I am very reserved and pretty quiet and standoffish in person when I'm in public or in groups. This will be the key to understanding how my mind works if I ever meet you and it's just us; Normally these days I don't act nervous, I figure there is no reason to be I don't know you and you don't know me. It'll work if it's meant to work. I smile a lot, but I get complimented on it so I guess its a good thing. If I don't smile or am not easy to make laugh or smile through a joke then I'm probably really not into you at all. I am usually super nice, but if I'm trying to drive a point home I can be quite short and rude just to make myself less attractive to you in hopes I'll never hear from you again. If I do act shy or nervous it is because of 1 of 2 reasons; the main reason is if you're coming on too strong/flirty it makes me feel uncomfortable and not know how to react. The 2nd reason would be (and don't count on it), that I'm super infatuated with you. I am very observant, I am listening to everything you say, (unless I've lost interest in you, and the above mentioned no smiling/laughing is a sign of loss of interest). As far as sex goes If we had agreed to have a sexual encounter know my likes and dislikes; likes : include; Petting - Run your fingers over or through my hair or skin it feels amazing I love it! I'll be in love if you do it till I fall asleep  Kissing - I love a good kisser, but if you can't kiss well (in my opinion) then I'd rather avoid it all together. I don't like peckers or too much tongue. I also don't like loud kissing noises to be made. Touchy feely - I love a thin to in-shape male figure, and I love to touch all over. My favorite spot on a guy is his waist area right where the belt line is, I love broad shoulders as well, and rough hands that let me know you work with them, super turn on! BJs - If Im attracted to you I do enjoy giving BJs, sometimes it's difficult for me to quit actually. But then again I can also give a BJ if I'm not so attracted to you either and just am trying to give you something so I don't completely reject you, it's a way-out of having sex with you. I do prefer to have FULL control of the BJs I give, I dont like to be forced at all on this, and this is about the only thing I like full-control of sexually. BUT this can really be one way or the other. My ability to do a good job, or desire to make a BJ last depends entirely on you. If you're just laying there like a limp noodle, no reaction no movements or sounds that let me know you're enjoying it then I really won't be doing it for a very long time. Your response to what I'm doing will determine everything. Hairpulling - Unless I'm giving a BJ, yeah I like my hair to be pulled during doggie style  Mild dominance - As in, no I don't want to go full out wearing a collar and calling you master but I do love it rough and to have a strong hand force himself in and on me. Note that the only thing I prefer to dominate is BJ time. Passion - If you know how to be passionate that's a HUGE turn on for me. I don't believe this is natural for everyone, either you have it in you or you don't. Yeah, you can be dominant and passionate at the same time. Choking - I do like rough sex, mild choking is a turn-on for me as long as I get kisses of reassurance here and there so it's not like a total dominate scene lol. Anal - I do love anal, not every time, but when we do do it, ease it in slowly, once its in rough and hard anal is the only way with me, I want to know I'm getting fucked in the ass not feel like I'm letting out a slow deuce, honestly. Cream Pies - I LOVE to feel you cum inside me, love love it, but unless we're exclusive or I know I can trust you we will not be having sex without a condom. Just saying, yeah I'm into it Use Your Hands! - Not all men know how to use their hands, so this is for those that do know how to use them. This is the only way the two men who did give me orgasms accomplished it. I don't expect anyone to be patient enough to find the spot because honestly, I don't know where it is either! But I know the general vicinity, and I can tell you if you're getting close. There is currently no one in Ohio, Indiana or Kentucky who can successfuly give me an orgasm. Just know if it's not working, I don't want it to become a mission, too much effort will only start to turn me off. I can enjoy sex very much without the orgasm, I promise. Dislikes include; Questions and/or Dirty Talk - When were having sex or I'm giving a BJ, don't ask questions that require an answer! Wow it's amazing how many guys love to say, "do you like that?.... Do you?? Tell me that you like it!" Holy shit-fuck when you make me have to stop what I'm doing to answer your stupid ass questions that is a huge turn-off. I will not be seeing you again if you ask ANY questions, except ones that are telling me what to do or just checking if I am into something before you try it. Also, I don't like to be degraded or called names, and really I'm not too verbal myself so I really don't like to degrade or call you names either. Sex Position; Riding - Now a lot of women I talk to prefer this position, on a very very very rare person I may slightly enjoy it, depending on the length, width and curve of your dick, but generally I really get absolutely nothing out of being on top except tired. If you are turned on by it I suppose I may be able to do it for a short period of time, but I'll be dry as a desert after a couple minutes. Sex Position; 69 - I really dont like having to focus on anything but the task at hand. I pretty much would rather just suck your dick, you messing with my vaj will only distract me, and that is not hott at all, not for me anyway. Ear touching - Just stay away from my ears in general, I don't like them nibbled on, licked, breathed on or touched in any way if you can help it. Accidental brushing against is nothing to worry about, mainly have an issue with intentional touching/breathing on/hovering over. Role Playing - I will not call you any name but your own, NO I will not call you daddy! I would prefer you don't even call me baby or babe, I really don't like using any names or terms-of-endearment other than our own names. I don't want to play games or pretend I'm something I'm not. Marks - I like a little pain but if it leaves any marks (including a hickey) I will not be happy! Clit play or being eaten out - Nope, I don't like to be eaten out! It's more of a relaxing thing to me, I feel like falling asleep. I suppose if you MUST go down there it's not out of the question, but no, I don't particularly find it a turn-on, you cuddling me and/or rubbing/scratching my back turns me on a million times more than eating me out, honestly it does. My clit is also extremely sensitive in a bad way. Any pressure on it feels like you're poking the worst black and blue bruise. If you're gentle.. Yeah that's fine but I really would rather you just forget my clit all together. Other woman - Sorry ladies, you're awesome as friends, but I can not bring myself to touch another woman below her waist. On the very rare instance I might agree to a 3sum, I can never return the favor, but I don't mind what you do to me. I can kiss you and touch your boobs but that's about it, there would be no passion about it. 3sums or orgies - I don't particularly like being distracted, so this includes adding another man, I just like to have my focus on one person. I am not interested in 3sums or orgies of any kind. NOTE: That only 2 men have ever been able to give me an orgasm, I cant even give myself an orgasm. I don't masturbate on my own time, my touch does nothing for me. Yes I've had all sorts of toys in the past, they just do nothing for me, I prefer the real thing! If I choose to meet someone in-person this is why I am very picky on appearance, I MUST be very very attracted to you or I wont meet you at all, because odds are I'm not going to orgasm, visuals and touch turn me on, please don't make it a mission! And don't ask if I've had one either! Trust me if I had one I will tell you! Just because I don't orgasm does not mean I don't thoroughly enjoy sex anyway, I do get very wet and turned on So I guess that's the basics to me, a lot I know. I'm sure no one will read through it all anyway so Its mostly for me to reference in the future and see if I ever change at all.  |
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Okay so I don't live within 20 miles, but I do really enjoy reading people's blogs, and I found this one very interesting and revealing. I smiled particularly when I read how much you don't like those kind of "you like that don't you?" questions during sex. I'm with you - that can be such a turn off. I know you started this post saying you have never seen anyone post a blog, but many people do! In fact there is a real sense of community here. I have formed friendships and even become very turned on by interactions on the blogs, and I often think you get to know someone better from what they write here than anything you can read in a profile. Maybe you'll keep coming back and tell us how you are getting on? If you write, people will read.
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