Reset Password
If you've forgotten your password, you can enter your email address below. An email will then be sent with a link to set up a new password.
Cancel
Reset Link Sent
If the email is registered with our site, you will receive an email with instructions to reset your password. Password reset link sent to:
Check your email and enter the confirmation code:
Don't see the email?
  • Resend Confirmation Link
  • Start Over
Close
If you have any questions, please contact Customer Service
Hookup, Find Sex or Meet Someone Hot Now

The Other Woman...  

everstarven 44F
28 posts
8/28/2014 12:11 am
The Other Woman...


Last night I had a dinner date, but this wasn't just with anyone, it was with "the other woman..."

This lady was the very first person my husband met and became intimate with when we started this journey. Over the passed few months, I found that although we didn't know each other, we had sooooo much in common (apart from my husband haha)

So last week, with permission, I sent her a message...it was very frank, honest and open. I wasn't surprised with the reply. We corresponded back and forth then decided it was only natural to meet up.

I nervously drove my car over to her place. I pulled up, gave her a beep and she came out. Got out, gave her a big hug and laughed. To anyone else, this whole situation would probably be crazy, but to us, it just seemed so right.

Went out to the sushi train. Can't remember the last time I laughed so much. I can totally see what my hubby sees in her. She's almost as awesome as me

Already organising the next time we go out.

Has anyone else been through a similar thing?

abe_froeman 46M
19 posts
8/28/2014 12:43 am

Do you both now share the hubby or cut him from the pic? Why was he not honest with you about the idea of adding another person to your bed or have you asked him?

Interested in hearing more of the story though.


everstarven 44F

8/28/2014 3:26 pm

@Abe, no, we don't share him together. We do our own thing separately. I think as time goes by, playing together will be an option, but seeing as we are both looking for different things, this setup will do.
@grnphilosophy, no, my husband didn't cheat on me. Perhaps the title of my blog is a little misleading...We don't do anything without each other's knowledge.


craggyireland 69M
17 posts
9/4/2014 2:56 pm

Ever,
Just how did the conversation come up about you contacting her and then meeting?


tasteyou692 54M

9/5/2014 4:34 am

i would like to know how the conversation came up about doing your own thing and spendign time with other people, My wife would never go for the idea


everstarven 44F

9/5/2014 5:53 pm

@craggy, my husband would often speak about her, and the issues she faced were exactly the same as myself in regards to searching for that special someone...
I spoke to the boss about messaging her and he had no problems with it. We've never done things the conventional way so meeting and becoming friends just seemed like the next natural step
@tasteyyou, Seeing as we want different things, there was really no discussions about searching for them together. We're both comfortable and confident enough to do it this way. Communication is the key


Become a member to create a blog