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Disappointing Sex - Ladies Only Please  

sexkitten4u2014 52F
379 posts
11/21/2014 2:41 pm
Disappointing Sex - Ladies Only Please

If you have ever had sex with someone and considered it a waste of time, would you tell them that it wasn't good? If you answer no, you wouldn't tell them, please comment on why you wouldn't tell them.
Yes I would tell them
No I wouldn't tell them


nd2hvfun 65F  
10021 posts
11/21/2014 5:48 pm

i wont tell them but i will never revisit it so it's "next"

je ne regrette rien


sexkitten4u2014 52F
294 posts
11/22/2014 7:56 am

Although there wasn't as many votes as I had hoped. I believe the consensus would be not to tell the person.

I have had this conversation with men repeated, that try to convince me how amazing they are in bed. I simply say to them... no one would tell you if you weren't. I think that's pretty safe to say.


sexkitten4u2014 52F
294 posts
1/17/2015 5:26 am

Glad to hear other women experience this disappointment. I was beginning to think my standards were too high, or I'm the lame one in bed. It's probably not fair to put all the responsibility on the man to make sex good, but it sure seems that they make it easy to make it lousy.


sexkitten4u2014 52F
294 posts
2/13/2015 5:42 am

    Quoting  :

you are right. there is no way to tell if a guy is good. But what us women experience is men talking a good talk. they convince us how amazing and talented they are, and unfortunately we fall for it just to be disappointed. I no longer will discuss sex before meeting anyone so I don't get excited about the sex, just to be disappointed.

I realize this is hard for men to understand, but as you can see from reading female responses, that it does happen. This is the unfortunate part of the misunderstanding between men and women about sex.


justlust1975 48M
42 posts
2/15/2015 9:02 am

In my experience, when the sex was really good, usually women don't resisit to appreciate how amazing was it and in a day or two they message to be friends bla bla................ and want it again


1santaclause 63M
30 posts
1/23/2016 1:42 pm

I have and I told her she just laid there found out later she was more into women


sexkitten4u2014 52F
294 posts
1/23/2016 2:09 pm

    Quoting 1santaclause:
    I have and I told her she just laid there found out later she was more into women
Well that was a waste of your time. sorry you had that happen.


1seeking1 58F
3767 posts
1/26/2016 3:26 pm

If it was waste of time, there will be no next time.
Depends on circumstances, as it truly takes two and sometimes nerves kick in. Being able to communicate goes a long way.
Mitch made good point, what is a good indicator of good sex, prior to?


D11377 51F  
68 posts
3/4/2016 5:23 pm

i wouldn't say anything but i would avoid them and say I can't meet when they want too and perhaps they should shop around..... rather easy as I tell all potential playmates hubby and family comes first


tom69_nyc 52M  
3 posts
7/17/2016 7:12 am

i have once told a woman - but it was with a long term partner - i would never tell a new partner... so many variables are in play during a first meeting - from over excitment to being nervous.

but in my case she was having sex just to satisfy me - she wasn't into it - she was too tired - and was trying to satisfy me... that is a recipe for bad sex.

both parties need to be into it to have truly good sexy. when we were the sex was amazing -


TandDC 55M/54F

1/16/2017 9:19 am

I've talk to woman who send they were always wet and flowing, but when you meet they are far from it. I think sometimes nerves play a role the first time From the males point of view


easyrider4008 67M
2562 posts
5/30/2018 4:16 am

A lot of women in my experience, maybe because of shyness or confidence are happy to take the action but are not so into giving the guy a good time, when I was younger and hornier I suppose it didn't matter so much if she wouldn't give head or want to make me the centre of attention for part of the act! So lets all play fair and treat sex as a special thing.


pookie1981 61F
12 posts
11/3/2019 8:30 pm

Don't want to hurt their feelings cause in their eyes they gave more then 100%. Don't want to burst their bubble


1santaclause 63M
30 posts
3/14/2020 3:37 pm

i would not want to hurt them they shared them selves with me


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