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Anyone have standards?  

sexkitten4u2014 52F
379 posts
10/18/2014 6:36 am
Anyone have standards?

It seems that there are a lot of men on this site that don't seem to have any standards when it comes to sex. As long as she's female, he'll fuck her. As a female, this is very concerning to me.

I have been asked several times to come over in the first email contact. They knew nothing about me, didn't know what I looked like. I could be a guy for all he knows.

Is this desperation on their part? or do they love women any kind of woman that it doesn't matter?

Sorry guys women do not have the same thought process as you. It's really rather creepy to know there are people out there that don't have concern for safety. If you're fucking anything that will let you, what kind of risks are you taking.

I'm really getting turned off by the people on here. We all want to have fun, but I'm not willing to risk my safety for it.

PDrive66 57M
3985 posts
10/18/2014 6:43 am

 Perhaps I'm the oddball male here but I do have some standards. The most important ones for me are intelligence and the ability to carry on half of a conversaation. I also lean towards those who are mostly optimistic. I can only taske so much negativety. Body type, status, etc are really that important too me but the mind is.


iamwhatiam49 75M
Ask me for a photo

10/18/2014 6:44 am

 Everyone has standards. Some will only require one to be female and breathing (breathing optional). Me, I happen to want to like who I share a bed (or kitchen table) with.


getlucky2132 45M
4996 posts
10/18/2014 6:45 am

 I think some guys would fuck a rattle snake if it was held right!? I know I ain't hopping into anything without knowing what I'm getting myself into! Yeah, personal safety comes wayyyy before safe sex....sure as hell ain't getting one without the other
Greater Than The Sum Of My Constituent Parts!


gspotlovergta 63M
Ask me for a photo
62 posts
10/18/2014 6:52 am

 i have seen that -- if it moves -- nail it


ElDeano64116 66M

10/18/2014 6:54 am

 Let's see ...is she breathing...check.......is she willing.....check...yes I'd do her....LOL..Just kidding.
There has to be a mental connection as well as a physical one. Or as I like to say a handsome hull draws them in but it's what's on the iside that keeps them coming back for more.
So yes, I do have standards and if someone is too easy, well it throws up a red flag and I back off.


rm_toold2care3 76M
Ask me for a photo
44 posts
10/18/2014 8:12 am

 When I was younger my standards were not very high. However the older I get the higher the standards get. I want a woman I can sit and talk with about anything and everything with some cuddling and fondling going on time to time through out most of the day. When we finally get to the real sex, we are both ready, willing and able.


rm_notkot 63M
4 posts
10/18/2014 11:18 am

 I have standards as well. Meet the person,get to know them,if there is a mutual attraction then see what happens


rm_sketter73 51M
3 posts
10/26/2014 5:31 am

 I have standars that many women don't like, if I do like whats under the panties, I'm outta there...I'm a picky eater.


sexkitten4u2014 52F
294 posts
10/26/2014 3:33 pm

 thanks everyone for the reassuring comments. I guess there is still hope for this site.


rm_notkot 63M
4 posts
11/7/2014 2:16 pm

 Standards are a must have. Personally, I would not think much of any woman who came over on first contact. would chat,talk,and, then meet somewhere,and, see how the in person goes. If good, then great,if not oh well.


rm_notkot 63M
4 posts
11/8/2014 5:16 am

 Just wondering how I can get in touch with you. When it says you are online,are you in a certain chat room?


rm_notkot 63M
4 posts
11/16/2014 10:55 am

 Hi there,hoping u might care to get to know each other and see where things go. You are a lovely woman,want to see if you are lovely as a person as well.


porterpiper1 57F
3755 posts
11/17/2014 3:42 pm

 because this is an adult sex site most think you have sex with any and everyone who contact you. Some people don't need a connection to screw anyone. Others need that connection. You are right safety comes first for me over sex, being horny, or whatever. I love living a healthy life. My life is worth more than getting my rocks off,


sexkitten4u2014 52F
294 posts
11/25/2014 4:55 am
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that's crazy lol. I also read a post from a woman where she invited him over, then was extremely disappointed in his appearance, hygiene and behavior. He had a knife in his pocket and a gun in his car. WTF are you doing inviting someone over that you don't know, this is exactly what happens!!!


dingbatdingbatdi 56M

3/18/2020 9:05 pm

 there is no such thing as safe sex. if you fuck with a condom or eat a woman, you're still at risk for various nasty conditions.
80% of people you meet, unless you' know them for a few years, are not going to be 100% honest with you about their history.

Sex today is roulette and only getting worse


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