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are you kidding me?  

lonelylover30742 63M
4 posts
1/11/2015 3:58 pm
are you kidding me?

from my profile.......

IF you are NOT interested for ANY reason, answer with a ''not interested'' message. that way i won't bother you any more.
SAYING nothing could mean...you're busy at the moment...or...you might get so many replies that you forgot.
YOU might think you are better than me and don't want to communicate with the likes of me.......BUT, i don't know that. so tell me.

a recent email from:

GODDESS269:
You dont tell me what I can say to you ok you read what I said since you want to write a fucking book get a life

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA, are you serious?
i'm so tired of stupid people !! plus, no punctuation, at all. lol

KatjaRose 52F
801 posts
1/11/2015 4:18 pm

 While I do think her email is bitchy, I am going to go on record as saying, I agree with her sentiment. Making that a command rather than suggestion/request comes off as arrogant and rude. Truth is, (and I've actually mentioned this a few times, just today...) not answering, "passive rejection" is just easier for some women. I know for me, seeing the words "No thank you; I'm not interested"... it makes my cheeks burn and the rejection is acute. It actually hurts, in my opinion, even if it's some one I have never met.

A lot of times, tone can't be construed from the printed word, so softening it as much as possible would go over way better. A matter of "If I've taken the time to email you, and you are truly not interested, pls take a second and send me a 3 word email to let me know... "no thank you" lets me know not to email again."
Legally, it's questionable. Morally, disgusting. Personally... I like it.

Your body may be a temple, but mine is a playground.

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A small something to add

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