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Horny_Holly 43F
768 posts
4/27/2015 2:59 pm
Don't ask me for...

...advice!

To clarify that title, don't ask me to advise you on how to change and/or improve your profile. What's up with that?

Today wasn't the first time I've been asked by a guy to advise them on what they could do to improve their chances on here.

How would I know? Despite what Whitney (RIP) sings, I am not every woman. I like what I like. I don't like what every other woman likes, and vice versa.

You see, this is why I know I should never, ever, ever reply to guys I'm not interested in. My auto-reply is very clear;if I'm interested in you I'll get back to you. But, no, I had to be nice and thank him for his message

No good deed goes unpunished...it's true

To be fair, it must be really disheartening to be one of those guys who never gets a reply to any of the messages they send. I do have a heart you know! Contrary to what you may have heard, haha. But I honestly don't have the time nor the inclination to be a good samaritan on an adult site.

I was advised today by a complete stranger from the other side of the pond to, and I quote "Keep the curly hair it looks amazing on you and sets you a part." What? I'm taking hair advice from Popeye now? I don't think so! I checked his profile out and he had a very old pic of him serving in the US Navy. I replied telling him the only advice I take on the way I look is my own.

Ahhh, men. Can't live with them, can't shoot 'em and get away with it

Have a wonderful week

Oh, wait, just as I was wrapping this up, Popeye has replied and isn't a happy bunny!

MikeM38_197*
Wow, what a snob. You take a genuine compliment and make me want to vomit at your arrogance. Great job princess.
27/4/2015 10:47 pm

Me
My arrogance? That's funny coming from someone who thought he could tell me how to keep my hair.

I thanked you for the compliment, so I have no idea what you're whining about.

Princess suits you more, along with cry baby.


I've met a lot of arrogant people, I've never once felt the need to vomit For a military "man" he doesn't have a very strong stomach As the days of our A F F lives turn...

Hold up, Popeye's not done yet...boy does he like the look of his own font

MikeM38_197*
Oh man, add to that that you think you know it all. I wasn't telling you what to do, what I said is you should wear it like that more because it sets you a part from the rest. You chose to see it as whatever you wanted. You're still just a but you'll realize that your looks won't last forever so do yourself a favor and grow up and don't be so shallow, arrogant, egotistical, and downright rude. I treat everyone with the respect that they treat me with. Take whatever you want from what I say, but know with how you perceive things that you're wrong about me. You'll get plenty of guys who want you, but that's because they will only look at you and not all of you. They'll ignore your arrogance because you're a pretty little piece of arm candy. But they won't want to truly be with you because you're all that I listed above. A real woman is the girl next door, and then some. Beauty is skin deep, but ugly goes straight to the bone.
27/4/2015 11:02 pm


That's a lot of vitriol from old Popeye there. He has a very odd view of someone he knows nothing about. You can't make this stuff up Nice of him to block me after he spewed his guts, coward, haha.







"I'm always disappointed when a liar's pants don't actually catch on fire..."


matt-battler 50M
199 posts
5/28/2015 1:56 pm

Interesting how someone who serves in a profession where he's away at sea for months at a time where it's pretty much 'all boys together' thinks he knows better what your hair should look like, even though he's never met you. I guess being a different gender from him would actually set you apart from his colleagues too.

As for his anti-Monarchy jibe - that is a low blow


Horny_Holly replies on 6/10/2015 3:57 pm:
I doubt he recalls his time in the navy. I think he had one picture posted of him in uniform and he looked about freaking twelve, haha.

I know Although, I'd probably have to explain what royalty is to him...he is a yank after all, Matt

FullOn4U 58M
20399 posts
5/6/2015 4:11 am

Nice boots


Horny_Holly replies on 5/7/2015 11:37 am:
I knew you'd like them

desiringyouforme 43M
128 posts
5/5/2015 5:53 am

O M G


Horny_Holly replies on 5/5/2015 12:22 pm:
Hahaha, I know!

Horny_Holly 43F
2767 posts
5/4/2015 2:32 pm

    Quoting FullOn4U:
    I have been on this site too long...

    When I read "Keep the curly hair it looks amazing on you and sets you a part." my first thought was "Zoiks| That's a bit forward - telling a woman you've never met how to sculpt her pubes!!"

    Worse still, my second thought was "Oi! How come I haven't seen the photos?"
...not this picture.
[image]

"I'm always disappointed when a liar's pants don't actually catch on fire..."


Horny_Holly 43F
2767 posts
5/4/2015 2:30 pm

    Quoting FullOn4U:
    I have been on this site too long...

    When I read "Keep the curly hair it looks amazing on you and sets you a part." my first thought was "Zoiks| That's a bit forward - telling a woman you've never met how to sculpt her pubes!!"

    Worse still, my second thought was "Oi! How come I haven't seen the photos?"
Sorry to disappoint!

He was referring to this picture...




"I'm always disappointed when a liar's pants don't actually catch on fire..."


FullOn4U 58M
20399 posts
5/3/2015 4:17 pm

I have been on this site too long...

When I read "Keep the curly hair it looks amazing on you and sets you a part." my first thought was "Zoiks| That's a bit forward - telling a woman you've never met how to sculpt her pubes!!"

Worse still, my second thought was "Oi! How come I haven't seen the photos?"


BrockmanBites 37M
89 posts
5/1/2015 8:33 pm

Only an idiot would dare to suggest how a woman should look, especially one he's never met.

He got all butt hurt and then cried, boo hoo for him.


Horny_Holly replies on 5/3/2015 11:38 am:
A fool is a fool is a fool. And he's a fool

bisarahsmiles 34F
282 posts
4/30/2015 6:03 am

What a tool The only kind of woman that would be interested in him is some airhead that doesn't mind being referred to as 'arm candy'.

I checked him out. He has has a small cock. So really that explains why he had such an adverse reaction to your reply


Horny_Holly replies on 4/30/2015 12:22 pm:
Hahaha, I didn't get as far as his tiny penis picture. That may well explain his rather bizarre rant

kzoopair 73M/71F
25831 posts
4/28/2015 8:02 am

    Quoting Horny_Holly:
    Now, now, just because I've never said I think you're funny and smart doesn't mean I don't think it

    I'm shocked to hear no one's ever referred to you as a "pretty little piece of arm candy".

    So this is just for you...
    [image]

Good things come to him who waits....a long, long time.

Become a member now and get a free tote bag.


Horny_Holly 43F
2767 posts
4/28/2015 6:16 am

    Quoting kzoopair:
    I'm kinda jealous. Nobody ever called me a "Pretty little piece of arm candy." I reckon I would get tired of it if it happened every day, maybe even real tired if it happened several times a day. I've been told I'm funny. I've been told I'm smart. (I know, I know- YOU never thought that.) I've been told I have pretty eyes. I've even been told I'm a good lover. And, I've been told I'm an asshole. But just once, I wannbe pretty little arm candy for some woman. Sigh.
Now, now, just because I've never said I think you're funny and smart doesn't mean I don't think it

I'm shocked to hear no one's ever referred to you as a "pretty little piece of arm candy".

So this is just for you...
[image]


"I'm always disappointed when a liar's pants don't actually catch on fire..."


kzoopair 73M/71F
25831 posts
4/27/2015 10:09 pm

I'm kinda jealous. Nobody ever called me a "Pretty little piece of arm candy." I reckon I would get tired of it if it happened every day, maybe even real tired if it happened several times a day. I've been told I'm funny. I've been told I'm smart. (I know, I know- YOU never thought that.) I've been told I have pretty eyes. I've even been told I'm a good lover. And, I've been told I'm an asshole. But just once, I wannbe pretty little arm candy for some woman. Sigh.

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DoctorBooty 43M
6426 posts
4/27/2015 5:17 pm

I would not have even bothered to send him a response, I'd have just blocked the moron and been done with him.


Horny_Holly replies on 4/27/2015 5:26 pm:
Ding, ding, ding!

You're right, Doc, and that's why, as I said earlier, I should not reply to guys I've no interest in, it just never ends well Lesson learned

I hope you are well. Have a good week

Horny_Holly replies on 4/27/2015 5:32 pm:
Oh, and to show that I'm done with him, I have straight hair in my profile pic. It's kind of a protest picture for Popeye, hahaha.

desiringyouforme 43M
128 posts
4/27/2015 5:11 pm

How is it arrogance to state a fact? IE you'll take your own advice

How is "thanks for the compliment have a good week blah blah blah" lashing out

How did it go so wrong so quickly and why are these fools always messaging you

He overreacted hugely You replied politely and as you've found before some people on this site do not respond kindly to politeness!! You'd get further with fuck off I don't want your advice

Ignore the fools


Horny_Holly replies on 4/27/2015 5:28 pm:
It isn't.

It isn't.

I don't know

I agree. And you know what? There's so much truth in that statement, as we've discussed before. The internet is not the place to tell the truth. For so many it just hurts so badly, haha.

I will, thanks, des!

PaisleyPolly 32F
120 posts
4/27/2015 4:30 pm

Wowser Fair enough if he didn't like your reply. Fair enough if you didn't like what he said. Not fair enough when he starts to spout his bile about a person he's never met, silly silly man!!

I think him using terms like "little piece of arm candy" is probably how he sees women. He wouldn't know what to do with a real woman. We know that from how he reacted at you having the cheek to answer him back!! Navy boy did not like!!

The only lashing out I see is by the guy, I'm confused as to why that comment was made to be honest OH well, it takes all sorts!!


Horny_Holly replies on 4/27/2015 5:00 pm:
I did post my reply to him earlier in reply to "nicelips". As she's chosen to delete her original comment I'll post the reply again.

Me
Thanks, but the only advice I take on the way I look is my own.

Thank you for the compliment, though. Have a great week.

Holly.
27/4/2015 10:26 pm


As I said to her, if she sees that as "lashing out" then our definitions of that term clearly differ. I thanked him for the compliment, I'm not sure what more he wanted? I also commented to "nicelips" that it was interesting that she made no comment about what he said, yet my message which included a thank you and a have a great week was perceived by her to be "lashing out"

Ha, funny you mention that, as I thought it was a rather sexist term to use. And you've probably hit the nail on the head as far as how he views women.

Thanks for commenting!


Foolishmortal29 40M
90 posts
4/27/2015 3:31 pm

I think you misunderstood what he was saying and it just went downhill from there. I ask for opinions all the time on my blog even if I might not like them. Feel free to voice yours as well.


Horny_Holly replies on 4/27/2015 3:34 pm:
I really didn't misunderstand. If he didn't like my reply that's his prerogative. I certainly wouldn't go off like that on a stranger for no reason, though, it's just bizarre behaviour to me.

That's cool that you ask for opinions. Operative words being "ask for".

Thanks for commenting

__Pauline__ 38F
42 posts
4/27/2015 3:24 pm

    Quoting nicelips666:
    All I see is a simple male comment, I honestly don't think he was trying to be an expert about it. "Keep the curly hair it looks amazing on you and sets you a part.". maybe he saw a picture of you with straight hair but tho that curly looks better? I see what you are saying about him giving hair tips, but why lash out like that over his comment?
I don't think her saying she only takes her own advice can be construed as "lashing out."


Horny_Holly replies on 4/27/2015 3:54 pm:
I have to agree with this. Although "nicelips" has chosen to remove her comment for whatever reason.

As you wrote below, "Fuck off I don't want your advice"...now had I replied to him with that, that would most definitely be "lashing out". I don't believe my reply could be deemed as such, and I won't agree with someone's opinion to appease them.

__Pauline__ 38F
42 posts
4/27/2015 3:22 pm

That popeye dude needs a slap That's quite the reaction he's having to, well, nothing. What a douchebag.

If he's never met you or the men you date he cannot comment on either. He's an ass. Saying "you should" is telling someone what to do. I don't believe for a second you were saying seriously to him "Fuck off I don't want your advice" which BTW you could have said. I might have said that but that's me LOL

Meh, you were polite. He wasn't. He's an ass. He won't get far in life with that sad ass attitude.


Horny_Holly replies on 4/27/2015 3:50 pm:
Yeah, his reaction borders on the ridiculous to say the least. People can disagree with my reply, that's up to them, but I was polite. For him to react that way to a stranger is beyond lunacy, IMO.

Thanks for commenting

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