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Can't take "NO" for an answer..!!!!  

enjoyinglife0069 62M/60F
6 posts
7/4/2014 10:09 am
Can't take "NO" for an answer..!!!!
Why is it single men can't take "NO" for an answer when you tell them your not interested. Our profile states several times "no single men" yet they still insist on trying. Then they get rude or obnoxious..All the standard members have to do is "mouse over" and it's clear as day..!!!!....WTF..!!!! Especially in IM..!!!!
rm_Saltie57 67F
Ask me for a photo
28 posts
7/4/2014 1:20 pm

 I think it is because this is a sex site. That we are suppose to want anybody and everybody that shows interest in us. I see you are older as I am. SOME young ones think all of our age is cougars or desperate. I am not and yes they get pissed when told no.


alz2012 40M
12 posts
7/4/2014 8:27 pm

 Ladies Don't take it personally. There are many reasons. One of them is because 90% of profiles here seem to be fake.

Another reason is how this system works. I think there is a high ratio of male over female (something like 1 men:100 women) .Women get +100 messages a day of "hi baby" or "nice tits" ( I set up a female account in just 5 mins I had +10 messages) while most single guys don't get any messages or replies.

From the guy's perspective there is a lot of frustration. you sign up ; put effort to set up your profile pay money to communicate and no one want to talk to you.

It is a number game for us. So you try to contact more. I have contacted the same person on multiple time without knowing it and she asked me to stop messaging her. Some of them get really rude. Unlike OKcupids you can't know that who you already contacted(and there are only body parts no faces .


enjoyinglife0069 replies on 7/5/2014 4:59 am:
I'm sorry, but we disagree. "NO" means NO, period. It shouldn't matter if it's a sex site or not, not everyone is willing to jump into bed with just anyone,ourselves included.We're here for fun,"not grief".

When it's in print in black and white, right in front of you there's no excuse.!!!

You look like an attractive, intelligent young man, if a woman tells you no in a bar or club scenario, are you going to keep trying? Even though she let you buy drinks for her all night.
What we think is they click on all and any profiles and lose track of who they contacted. To us this seems like desperation,and if thats the case then their going about it all wrong..
With all that said, we do wish them luck..

alz2012 40M
12 posts
7/6/2014 8:10 am

 I agree "NO mean NO" in any scenario .

I apologize for our "single guys" behaviors.It is not fun dealing with that kind of things. They don't read profiles just pics.

VisionPersonals.com should have a system to filter who can or can't send you emails (based on sex or age). Many adult dating/sex sites have that.
I wish you good luck in your search. Hope they don't ruin your experience here.


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