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Men, Dicks.
Men, Dicks. i wrote this to post on craigslist but i thought it worth re-posting here Men, DICKS I have been reading the posts in Craigslist for a while now and I must say its a wonder any of you get laid (ever). I realize that you want to tell others what you seek but do you really think that telling the populous of women to come suck your dick will get you a response. (or lets fuck, or come satisfy me.) Then I read that men are turning to other men because they need something and the women here wont respond. Guess what guys women are real people and we are not here to meet your needs we are here to meet ours. I must say the pickings are getting pretty slim to find a respectful man attached to the Dick I need to use to meet my needs. Then I go through all the trouble to find a good man with a good Dick and I find that he cant use it. (it goes soft or wont get hard at all {if you want to know why got to Utube>ted talks>the great porn experiment.} or he unloads so quick that it was hardly worth the effort). Just a few tips for you Dicks that want to find a real woman to mutually meet your sexual needs: Be respectful. Even if you are seeking role play, you want a healthy intelligent woman to play with you will only get that with respect. Be Original. Women who like sex talk to lots of men so set yourself apart. Be Prepared. Just like the work world is geared for you (men getting paid more than women and glass ceiling and all) The world of alternative sex is a woman's domain. This is due to supply and demand, there are not all that many women who have an open healthy attitude about sex so the ratio of women to men that seek sex is very tilted. So women really do have the power here. Be honest. If discretion is a must because you are married then say so, if you lie about being in a relationship then you will get caught and you cant blame the woman because you did not even tell her. Be secure. Drama comes from insecurity and no one wants drama in their life. Be Respectful. If a woman meets you and is not interested she owes you nothing. No means no even if she changes her mind and says no just as you are ready for intercourse. If you chose to continue on the same course and you think that you can get laid with negative or disrespectful adds, then I can only assume that you have the money to pay for sex or you don't care if you sleep with a gal that wants to share her disease with you. Happy Hunting. May Karma be with you... Lets Create together. http://VisionPersonals.com.com/blog/jadesmith69 we can fantasize forever. J |
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Your only as good as your last encounter. Then check the mirror. It has a lot of answers.
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guess the problem is the this, or CL or any other site plays up to it's mission statement...ie the vanilla date sites claim that a loving match can be found...on the other side of the spectrum, sites like this say getting laid is all but a sure thing. tends to be a disconnect between the two camps here, women and men...surely the guys shouldnt be surprised when "hey lets fuck" doesnt work, but equally women shouldnt be surprised with this response given the 'wares on display' which basically says "im here to fuck" while there is some truth that men will take a walk on the bi side due to the concept of 'diminishing prospects' but there are also a few other factors at work - growing, though lagging far behind acceptance of female bisexuality, acceptance within the overall male population. more men are not becoming bisexual, more men are coming to terms with it as society relaxes. men 'get' other men - in the context that on a sex site, folks are looking for, well no hassle sex. all your points are very valid. as a couple we get the hey lets fuck all the time and decline such invitations. we are not into the 'drop trou, drop load' mentality either - though it only seems base, crude and one dimensional when lowered to that level - plenty of couples and women attend group settings where its effectively the same thing,
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well said, hope some men take note of what you said.
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I think for most guys, advertising on CL is like throwing up a Hail Mary pass. so they just lob it up without much real hope of anything coming of it. Had a look at your proflile, at least what I could see as a standard member and see that you describe yourself as a Dragon. Since I have never heard this term used before, I tried googl ing it and came up with nothing. What is a dragon? Woodrow J. Evers
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kudos for your tips, that is what seems to be lacking on this site
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I can only speak for myself - but when we get emails and the first thing I see is a dick picture - DELETE!!! Honestly - I want to see a face picture and a letter that has more to it than "let's meet - I want to f*ck you". The sender isn't being respectful and thinking only of himself. Connect with my mind and then and only then may things progress. If all I wanted was a hard dick - I have my husband, I have BOB and I have FWB's.
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Good points but the world keeps turning as is. Cum to my blog and respond. Have a great kissing fun time.
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