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Men, Dicks.  

jadesmith69 55F
455 posts
1/31/2016 12:16 pm

Last Read:
4/9/2016 4:54 am

Men, Dicks.


i wrote this to post on craigslist but i thought it worth re-posting here

Men, DICKS

I have been reading the posts in Craigslist for a while now and I must say its a wonder any of you get laid (ever).
I realize that you want to tell others what you seek but do you really think that telling the populous of women to come suck your dick will get you a response. (or lets fuck, or come satisfy me.)
Then I read that men are turning to other men because they need something and the women here wont respond. Guess what guys women are real people and we are not here to meet your needs we are here to meet ours. I must say the pickings are getting pretty slim to find a respectful man attached to the Dick I need to use to meet my needs.
Then I go through all the trouble to find a good man with a good Dick and I find that he cant use it. (it goes soft or wont get hard at all {if you want to know why got to Utube>ted talks>the great porn experiment.} or he unloads so quick that it was hardly worth the effort).

Just a few tips for you Dicks that want to find a real woman to mutually meet your sexual needs:

Be respectful. Even if you are seeking role play, you want a healthy intelligent woman to play with you will only get that with respect.

Be Original. Women who like sex talk to lots of men so set yourself apart.

Be Prepared. Just like the work world is geared for you (men getting paid more than women and glass ceiling and all) The world of alternative sex is a woman's domain. This is due to supply and demand, there are not all that many women who have an open healthy attitude about sex so the ratio of women to men that seek sex is very tilted. So women really do have the power here.

Be honest. If discretion is a must because you are married then say so, if you lie about being in a relationship then you will get caught and you cant blame the woman because you did not even tell her.

Be secure. Drama comes from insecurity and no one wants drama in their life.

Be Respectful. If a woman meets you and is not interested she owes you nothing. No means no even if she changes her mind and says no just as you are ready for intercourse.

If you chose to continue on the same course and you think that you can get laid with negative or disrespectful adds, then I can only assume that you have the money to pay for sex or you don't care if you sleep with a gal that wants to share her disease with you. Happy Hunting. May Karma be with you...

Lets Create together. http://VisionPersonals.com.com/blog/jadesmith69
we can fantasize forever.
J


1942_bob 81M
380 posts
1/31/2016 12:41 pm

Your only as good as your last encounter. Then check the mirror. It has a lot of answers.


jadesmith69 replies on 3/9/2016 6:15 am:
that is true
when i have issues i usually look at myself first
but then i forget that not everyone is capable of that
funnily enough the guys who would have benefited the most from the post saw red before they could read what it said

Travel_Couple69 58M
1604 posts
1/31/2016 12:46 pm

guess the problem is the this, or CL or any other site plays up to it's mission statement...ie the vanilla date sites claim that a loving match can be found...on the other side of the spectrum, sites like this say getting laid is all but a sure thing.

tends to be a disconnect between the two camps here, women and men...surely the guys shouldnt be surprised when "hey lets fuck" doesnt work, but equally women shouldnt be surprised with this response given the 'wares on display' which basically says "im here to fuck"

while there is some truth that men will take a walk on the bi side due to the concept of 'diminishing prospects' but there are also a few other factors at work - growing, though lagging far behind acceptance of female bisexuality, acceptance within the overall male population. more men are not becoming bisexual, more men are coming to terms with it as society relaxes. men 'get' other men - in the context that on a sex site, folks are looking for, well no hassle sex.

all your points are very valid. as a couple we get the hey lets fuck all the time and decline such invitations. we are not into the 'drop trou, drop load' mentality either - though it only seems base, crude and one dimensional when lowered to that level - plenty of couples and women attend group settings where its effectively the same thing,


jadesmith69 replies on 3/9/2016 6:17 am:
thank you
its not easy but if i was not having fun i would do something else

sexkitten4u2014 53F
294 posts
1/31/2016 1:04 pm

well said, hope some men take note of what you said.


jadesmith69 replies on 3/9/2016 6:18 am:
well that is not looking great but if even one person learned something *(and i did ) it was worth it...

Woodyeverready 65M
1187 posts
1/31/2016 1:43 pm

I think for most guys, advertising on CL is like throwing up a Hail Mary pass. so they just lob it up without much real hope of anything coming of it. Had a look at your proflile, at least what I could see as a standard member and see that you describe yourself as a Dragon. Since I have never heard this term used before, I tried googl ing it and came up with nothing. What is a dragon?

Woodrow J. Evers


jadesmith69 replies on 3/9/2016 6:19 am:
its funny though i have been looking at my past and i have found that i have more success with FWB on CL than i have on any other site i use.

notsure1949 75M
10657 posts
1/31/2016 3:08 pm

kudos for your tips, that is what seems to be lacking on this site


jadesmith69 replies on 3/9/2016 6:20 am:
that is because it is a "get laid tonight" site ... and in truth there have been one or two people who did "get laid tonight" so that is why they can claim it

montanacpl59601a 70M/72F  
9 posts
2/1/2016 12:45 pm

I can only speak for myself - but when we get emails and the first thing I see is a dick picture - DELETE!!! Honestly - I want to see a face picture and a letter that has more to it than "let's meet - I want to f*ck you". The sender isn't being respectful and thinking only of himself. Connect with my mind and then and only then may things progress.

If all I wanted was a hard dick - I have my husband, I have BOB and I have FWB's.


jadesmith69 replies on 3/9/2016 6:21 am:
thank you
exactly,,, i may not have a husband but i have plenty of FWBs
unfortunatly i would have to drive a great distance to see some of them... wink wink

Han54boat 71M
11637 posts
2/5/2016 10:11 am

Good points but the world keeps turning as is.


Cum to my blog and respond. Have a great kissing fun time.


jadesmith69 replies on 3/9/2016 6:22 am:
yes
and our job is not to change the world
it is just to clean up our little corner of it

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