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Blogs > jadesmith69 > I look better NAKED!

Open relationships  

jadesmith69 55F
455 posts
10/19/2015 6:39 pm

Last Read:
10/21/2015 2:48 pm
Open relationships

it has been a long while, and i feel ready to write. so here goes.
What is an open relationship?
I have often wondered about the trust and the security that goes into an open relationship.
On the surface it seems that most are not secure enough to entertain such an idea. In my mind there was no other ideal relationship to have.
Imagine if you will total trust, total freedom and the love of a secure person standing behind you.
Ideal?
Perhaps I have seen too much in my life and have seen the “Ideal” couples who are totally secure and have open relationships. I set my sights high and decided to hold out. Not just for an open relationship but also for marriage.
How secure are you?
Could you handle a relationship where the person you love sleeps with others?
How would that look for you? Would you want to be there every time?
These are the questions couples field when they decide that they want to explore the lifestyle (or swinging).
For most of the time I have been in the lifestyle I have been single so while I have held onto my idea of ideal I often wondered if I would ever find someone who had the same ideas of openness coupled with commitment that I held in the back of my mind.
Then it did happen!
I met a man that made my head swim.
my heart swooned when he came into my life
and every day with him is a easy surprise.
The open relationship is falling into place for us naturally and we both know that we want the other in our life forever.
Life is a trip, I kept wondering if I set the bar too high and if I would never meet the right person and then one day when I quit thinking about it and let down my guard he shows up.
I am so excited for each day and am once again I am renewed in my belief of the power of the universe.
Lets Create together. http://VisionPersonals.com.com/blog/jadesmith69
we can fantasize forever.
J
rickyspanish76 48M
7843 posts
10/19/2015 7:22 pm

 I agree


montanacpl59601a 70M/72F  
9 posts
10/20/2015 6:47 am

 We have been in this wonderful way of life for over 17 years. We discussed just a few weeks ago "Where do we go from here". Being in this for so long we have enjoyed the variety of people we've met and we know for sure we will remain in the lifestyle until age or health prevents us from continuing.

But we are going to try a new path - one of having 1-4 couples/single women in our life and being in a relationship with these people. The days are gone where we'll meet and play with strangers. With existing friends there is always the possibility of playing - but what we are really looking for now is a close, intimate relationship with others. I guess you could say this is an "open" relationship - but only open to our small circle of friends.

This opens the door to many new feelings and loving - truly loving others and allowing them to love back. We are excited about the possibilities...


jadesmith69 replies on 10/21/2015 2:50 pm:
the thing i love best about the lifestyle it that adults get to make adult choices that work for them ... would love to hear how this works out for you.

3102lkycpl 68M/65F
5 posts
10/27/2015 7:25 am

 We agree with the open relationship with friends.
It is a two sided coin. The fulfillment is wonderful.
You can lose those friends if things go bad. The loss of friends is very painful.


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