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Excitement LOST!
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Excitement LOST! I just cant get excited anymore. When I first got on this site I was excited about all the possibles of sex. It seems that it takes a long time and now a great many safety checks to get to the “hook up”. The reality of the site took months to set in, once it did the luster was gone quickly. Most of my contact on this site is from the men who truly believe that they can get laid just by joining the site. “get laid tonight” is promised on the adverts for the site. They are apparent because they send me messages like hey and whats up and lets hit it. At least those messages are easy to ignore. The majority of messages after that are from what seem like decent people and we exchange messages and some of them even live near me. We plan to meet and about half of those meeting actually happen. Then after the meet about one third of those result in intimacy but not fwb, every six months I find one fwb that sticks and then something happens and I have to start over. About every other month I get a message from someone who seems totally exciting and then after a few email exchanges I find that they may just be too good to be true. When I get to that point I think that perhaps those elusive men are truly the cyber stockers that prey on the hopeful to gain trust and then “funds” (the fakes and frauds you have been warned about) this scheme cuts both ways (men and women). At the end of the day and end of reading and pureusing VisionPersonals.com I just cant seem to work up any excitement any more... Is it so hard to find a local fwb that just works with out all the frustration, forgetting and fraud? I am so ready for it to be easier, more fun, and exciting, just not sure how to get that back.  Lets Create together. http://VisionPersonals.com.com/blog/jadesmith69 we can fantasize forever. J |
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You are saying exactly what I'm feeling. I get tons of messages stating "when, where, how, soon, do you suck dick, can i taste, etc" ..we chat and then i find I am number 42 they have met on the site of which 85% wanted money, favors, etc....I just want clean GOOD sex from somebody I can get along with. It is indeed hard to find both in one person, lately...and If i find them...they live hours away and that is also a challenge. Read your post and had to comment and advise that you are not alone in your thoughts on this one!!!
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And so goes digital dating would be an appropriate answer, imo. However, your not new to this scene from I read in your abbreviated bio that opens when I mouse over your blog pic. Perhaps you may be experiencing a change of mindset, have you felt that way at all like you want something different now? Any activity has ups and downs, gets stale, frustrating. Maybe there are issues in your life that could be factors, too. Maybe you need a break, take some time away from the site, or just IM and take it easy, no expectations for anything. Relationships go through this and it is challenging to keep things alive over the long-term, requires active input from those involved. The holidays are just getting done and normalcy (however you define that for yourself) are returning. Change is one of the consistent things about life and adapting to it is sometimes a mystery to be unraveled. Good Luck to you. Excitement LOST
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In the age of 'instant gratification', is this any surprise? Those few of us who don't think that way are usually not considered because we don't fit the 'bad boy that is only good for me' mold that so many women seem to want. If you're a guy, don't be a 'nice guy' or you'll be shunned, while the bad boys leave a bad taste in all the ladies mouths... if you're a woman, you'll be approached by hundreds of 'bad boys' and start looking at everyone with a jaundiced eye... I'm beginning to think the internet is a bad way to meet anyone...
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I know the feeling Jade... all too well.  Too many fakes and so many flakes... Wish my car was working so I could do the occassional road trip to B-town. Hang in there. 
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