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teaching a new crop, BASICS OF AFF  

jadesmith69 55F
455 posts
11/25/2014 7:24 am

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12/1/2014 6:48 pm

teaching a new crop, BASICS OF AFF


If you have not been on VisionPersonals.com long or don't use it often there are some things that you should know.
single females and good looking couples get tons of messages, so if you think that you are going to get laid by saying "hey" think again.

VisionPersonals.com may say that you can get laid tonight (and they can make the claim because a few get on and get off the same day) but the odds are that you will not.

giving out your phone number in the first one or two messages is not endearing it shows a lack of patience, if you are that impatient from the start why would i want to finish?

there are not bots here like everyone thinks
there are however prostitutes, looking to expand their business.
there are also single females who enjoy sex
and couples who know what they are looking for and what works for them.

If you log on VisionPersonals.com will show you on for at least one hour even after you log off ... the longer you are on the more people get exposed to your profile.

if you post a photo you become more interesting if you never post a photo i will assume that you are married, and cheating "aint nobody got time for that"

if you post creative photos i have a reason to visit your profile often and if your photos are hott hott hott then i will list them as favs so i can come look at them often.

so of the people here are voyeurs that does not make then less real it just means that they do what works for them. if you don't want them looking at your photos don't post them.

once you post ANYTHING here it becomes the property of VisionPersonals.com... don't whine when they use it...

we are all here for our own reasons not "the same reason" just because you are horny does not mean that that is the reason i am on today. (some days i just need to get laid too but that is why i have FWBS)

where safety is concerned i must be careful, DO NOT ASK ME TO MEET YOU AT YOUR HOUSE OR IN YOUR MOTEL ROOM. i don't know you, you don't know me why in the world would i ever do that?

most of the people on this site have many partners. wear a condom, for everyone's future.

if you want to play in this playground at least make it interesting, the more exciting you make it for me the more i am going to want to meet you and perhaps more... the more you whine and complain (especially in your profile) the further down my list you will be.

just an overview mostly for the male profiles here ... there are a majority of you here so if you want to compete perhaps you should bring your A game.

Lets Create together. http://VisionPersonals.com.com/blog/jadesmith69
we can fantasize forever.
J


BiM4CoupleNJ 59M  
39 posts
11/25/2014 7:52 am

And take time to actually read the profiles, you will never get a response from someone who has stated what they are looking for and you are outside that.


s2ndegree 65M
9800 posts
11/25/2014 8:18 am

Someone that has multiple F W B 's and doesn't know know their F W B's
multiple partners and you think everyone thinks the same about safety as you do
crossing your fingers can only go so far.What's the likely hood someone would
be ashamed and embarrassed getting one and keeping it to themselves.

Using more than all the road!


MovingOn001 68M
929 posts
11/25/2014 10:03 am

One other very important point which should be made. Treat EVERYONE you encounter with the courtesy and respect which you expect to receive. People will respond positively to that, but will respond in like manner if you act like an a$$hole. People who act like a$$holes are extremely unlikely to get laid, except maybe by one of the miniscule minority of those who actually enjoy being with a$$holes.


actuallyido2 68M  
22 posts
11/27/2014 4:14 pm

And for those of us who are not Gold members, and can not send messages, using the Instant Messenger app is about the only hope of making contact.
If you're a guy and not Gold, it's pretty hard...


MrSnuggzie 54M  
10 posts
11/27/2014 8:56 pm

Also, be suspicious of newly added female profiles that you see here on VisionPersonals.com until they are seasoned and it "feels right" when communicating with them, as there are a decent number of them that are fake. I can't count how many times I've received a flirt or been added to the hotlist of a brand new or recently added female profile, which became deleted anywhere from within a few days, to within a few weeks of being created.

And, if you engage in an instant messenger contact with them, the story is always the same. They ask you for your Yahoo screen name, don't use English in the way that an American would (obvious foreigner), and that they are looking for a "God-fearing man" to have a serious relationship, as the love of their life. LOL ... on VisionPersonals.com ... yeah, right.

Guys ... if anyone, whether in their VisionPersonals.com profile or IM chat, uses that phrase "God-fearing man" and writes their English in a strange way, then it is a dead giveaway that the person is not real. Then, watch and observe how the profile will then become deleted in a short amount of time.


jadesmith69 replies on 11/27/2014 9:28 pm:
those people are real
they are really trying to pull you in so that they can ask you for money.

actuallyido2 68M  
22 posts
11/28/2014 6:57 pm

I don't know about the older guys, but I see that attitude with younger guys all the time. Just the way they talk and act...they are convinced they are doing women a favor by gracing them with their presence...
a little patience and respect can go a long way!
Coffee, lunch, or whatever, in a public place, can be a good place to start.
I gave up drinking 30 years ago, so bars aren't my meeting place of choice.


jadesmith69 replies on 11/29/2014 7:23 am:
i have to agree though i have found some older men as well that seem to have the same issues...
i think that perhaps they just dont understand how they come across which is why i started this blog.
thank you for your input.

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