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"I don't belive in love"!
"I don't belive in love"! I don't know anyone who haven't got their heart broken. One thing if we live long enough it might get broken again, this is reality! We win some, lose some, but we don't give up or quit. My neighbor been divorced 6 times, he haven't quit or given up, he's waiting for number 7. He'll get married again in a New York minute! Some people don't recover. Who they were, had changed, they now become heart breakers! They are out there! Men and women, who was kind and loving and now did a 180 degree turn. They get with someone and now they the one breaking hearts! No consciences! I had a buddy that got his heart broken, he becomes a dog. A BIG DOG! A St Bernard. His goal was to be with all the women he can. He got played, so now he became a player. No feeling, no emotions. It's sad when someone become this way. He broke many hearts, so if "The one" shows up, he'll run her away. He went from a loyal person to a man that been with 8 different women in one week. I dated a woman, he had a "dark life", she was adopted and she was on the streets at a young age. She had to have unwanted sex to survive. I tried my best to make it work, no loyalty,. And if the least little thing happens, she was going to cheat. If she call, and if you don't answer for whatever reason, this give her a pass to cheat. If you ask her about it, she would say, it was just sex! No big deal. They both was two of a kind, I wasn't surprised when I found out they hooked up. I believe they both could had been good people, but having a broken heart turn them into Monsters. So at different times, I talk to each of them about love. And this is what each of them said to me. They said, "I don't believe in love" I never have, I never will! Coincidences! Riddletime** What is it that everyone requires, everyone gives, everyone asks and that very few take? ans: advice. |
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Love is what we make of it, and its all about COMMUNICATION, if you don't have that you don't have anything..
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One only recognize what he/she experienced! They do deserve each other. Once you cheat you can never go back. I think everyone can find love some place. hugssssssssss V Become a blog watcher sweet_vm
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One only recognize what he/she experienced! They're different kind of love, and for someone to say that it doesn't exist, it's because he never felt nor receive any! I have to say you are wrong about that. I've felt the feelings of attachment , I know the feeling well, but love doesn't exist. That which we refer to as "Love", is merely a chemical response to programmed imprint. Love doesn't exist. If your programming was wiped out, by disease or trauma, any recognition of imprinting that causes you to feel attachment to another would be gone. Love is man made concept we made up due to the neurochemical affect from our imprinted programming.
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scoupe42 replies on 6/27/2016 2:01 am: That's hard to say, I showed love towards here, but she couldn't change her ways. Just because she didn't love you, it doesn't mean that love doesn't exist! WITHOUT PASSION LIFE IS NOTHING
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One only recognize what he/she experienced! They're different kind of love, and for someone to say that it doesn't exist, it's because he never felt nor receive any! WITHOUT PASSION LIFE IS NOTHING
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"I don't believe in love"! .... That's good, because it doesn't exist. You just have a perceptible feeling of closeness based on certain given conditions. That's all. I don't know anyone who haven't got their heart broken. .... You don't really get your heart broken. A "Condition" changes and certain neurochemicals stop flowing so you experience pain. One thing if we live long enough it might get broken again, this is reality! ..... It's a given. My neighbor been divorced 6 times, he haven't quit or given up, he's waiting for number 7. .... He should give up on the institution of marriage. It's not practical. He doesn't need to marry every woman he feels attachment for. He'll get married again in a New York minute! ..... Some people are just foolish. I had a buddy that got his heart broken, he becomes a dog. A BIG DOG! A St Bernard. His goal was to be with all the women he can. .... That's a more realistic goal. He got played, so now he became a player. ... Nothing wrong with that. No feeling, no emotions. It's sad when someone become this way. ... Not really. Not committing to just one, ever, doesn't mean his emotions and feelings are gone. They are just under control. He broke many hearts, so if "The one" shows up, he'll run her away. ... That works for some. They are probably ran off because they become possessive. The woman who said, "It's just sex", is right. He went from a loyal person to a man that been with 8 different women in one week. ... Nothing wrong with that either. I believe they both could had been good people, ... They are good people. They just have a different, and possibly more realistic, grasp on the perception of attachment. but having a broken heart turn them into Monsters. ... They are not monsters. Far from it. They said, "I don't believe in love" .... Well, they are right. They don't pretend in love, the way you want to pretend in love.
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