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"There no "I" in "We"!
"There no "I" in "We"! This for the lover out there, you have someone you cherish, adore, admire, someone you in love with, or that someone who completes you. This is for you. Things always better with 2. A good relationship is the secret for longevity. Over a decade ago, a buddy of mines, from the same company I work at, got himself a girlfriend. He was divorced over 10 years, and got used to be by himself. He moved his girlfriend in with him. One day, after playing basketball, he decided to grab himself a bit to eat on the way home. He came home, put the bag down, his girlfriend looked in the bad and said, where's mine? He told her, he forgot. He said, she stormed in the bed room and was crying, she grabs some clothes and went to her mother's place. This was Sunday. Monday when I went to work, he asked if I got a few minutes to talk. He told me what happened, and he said, she over react! What's the big deal? By him being my friend, I told him what I though. First, I told him, that we was wrong. He said, wrong? I said, yes. You know you needed to eat, she needs to eat too. You not an individual anymore, you part of a team. You got to change your mindset. There's no more "I", it's "US" or "WE" .You get something to eat, you got to get two, when you buy a movie ticket, you now got to get two, if you get invited to a BBQ, you got to ask if you can bring her, if she can't go, you don't go. You and her on the team of "US, or "We" now. A few weeks later, he said, thanks. He said, now their relationship is solid. Two people becomes one with two bodies. She must be a mirror of you, and you must be a mirror of her. If not, you both becomes two "I"s not ever a "We". If you find someone, whose on the same page, being a "WE" is awesome. There a way to find out if you both are "WE"s instead of "I"s . Ask the person you with, about their future, their goals, accomplishments, wants, and what do they see in the future. If they don't mention you in their future, maybe they not the one for you. If you decide to leave, and they ask why you leaving, you tell them, "There's no "I" in "WE"! Fun facts: Did you know Kangaroos have 3 virginals? Fun Facts: The meaning "earworm," is a song that get stuck in your head.. Terms: Abulia: The inability to make decisions. Terms: Apodysophilia: A feverish desire to rip one's clothes off. |
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10/25/2014 4:39 pm |
Glad, you enjoyed it, maybe one day, I can meet you both.
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You know Scoupe the one lady above you who posted sweet might just be the one who you might like to meet in real life. This is an excellent post and I hope all the ladies are reading this... Sweet has it so right here.. love her answer! hugssssssssssssss V Make contact! Become a blog watcher sweet_vm
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10/25/2014 9:47 am |
Thanks!
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