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"MAN THE FUCK UP" & STOP ACTING LIKE PUSSIES  

mykittysquirtz 57F
23 posts
8/11/2014 5:46 pm
"MAN THE FUCK UP" & STOP ACTING LIKE PUSSIES

I'm growing really tired of men that I have these giant conversations with that last for hours & weeks and we make plans and the next thing I know the man goes silent and stops answering my text messages, my chats, my emails. I would think that after I put that much time & energy into being as open and honest as I can with someone that they would at least "MAN THE FUCK UP" and give me an explanation as to why they quit talking to me. That's not a lot to ask. I think I deserve that much after I get that invested in someone.

You know it really isn't that hard to just tell someone you're not interested in them instead of wasting their time. It takes a real man to say, " I'm sorry I'm not interested."

And a real pussy to say, " I can't wait to meet you and feel that spark that I haven't felt in forever" and then he stops talking to me. What did he do scare himself off for saying that to me?

You know who you are if you're reading this, but don't worry we may have texted massively - but I'm not in love with you. Yes I liked you a lot.

Now my feelings are extremely hurt & I really don't want to be here at the moment. I'm tired of you guys making me feel like a god damn fool.... I guess people don't know what "real" means anymore. I'm glad all of you enjoy looking at my pictures and jacking off to them, because that seems to be the only thing that any of you want.

Thanks Larry - you don't know what you're missing.

I don't know when I'll be back online.

I just want to tell everyone of you to bite my ass right now.


rm_AKAJessie 74M
28 posts
8/11/2014 5:58 pm

post3463279 Good for you friend and don't think that it only effects you. Men can get the same treatment but you have put it very well. Don't give up on all of us guys some do care and well tell it like it is.


nd2hvfun 65F  
10021 posts
8/11/2014 6:13 pm

we all go thru that shit some men are fucked up in the head dont try to reason why, its his issue...i had one ALT3774 wasted my time with bullshit now i cant get him to take me off his hotlist so when i look who hotlisted me i dont need to see his nasty face you think that would be the least he could do..he BS a storm of what he had what he was looking for how he felt...me i take it slow because i know men BS

je ne regrette rien


TXArmyWife 51F
1964 posts
8/11/2014 6:34 pm

It's happened to me several times, also.

I need a really great kiss!!


rm_muckfich 48M
14 posts
8/15/2014 10:39 pm

I've had people disappear like that on me also. I wonder if people take my kindness as me being head over heels for them, or worry that I'll be wuss. Some people are just too immature to communicate I guess. They are like an iffy stiffy. They put in an effort at getting excited, but go away just when it's time to really make things happen. I'm sorry people have done that to all of you. We all deserve better. By the way, you have a very nice ass. I'd much rather grab it than bite it.


mykittysquirtz 57F
5 posts
8/18/2014 6:46 pm

you are an awesome dude Muckfich!


JustALexGuy 52M
63 posts
11/2/2014 8:58 am

I'm sorry this happened to you. I've been done this way by several women here over the years both when I was a free member and gold. There's varying levels of this too. They'll view my profile multiple times (free/gold doesn't matter), flirt, hotlist, accept friend invite, etc. I'm usually the one to initiate an email. Sometimes I get a response, most of the time I don't. When I do get a response we may email back and forth a few times and then they stop for some reason but I know they are still there because they keep viewing my profile.

Recently I met a young woman at a coffee shop, we chatted and seemed to compatible. After I got home and emailed her and told her I enjoyed meeting her and looked forward to meeting again and she responded similarly so I thought we were good. That was the last response I got from her. I sent a few more emails and after no response I finally emailed her asking why she didn't have the courtesy to at least say she changed her mind. This wasn't me being impatient and constantly emailing her every few hours - this was about a month of trying before finally I gave up and told her so. I also called her out on leaving the instant messenger when I would send her IM's.

I've had women accept my friend invitation when I email them and they never reply so after a week or so I email again and tell them I'll give them one more week and if I don't get a response I'll delete them because they are either a fake profile or just here to play games. I've got a few pending right now and some of them are gold members that have no email limits, are online all the time, accept more friends, view my profile practically every day (sometimes multiple times a day) and I've not received one reply to my email. I understand that most women on here get lots of emails compared to us guys so I'm sure it takes a while to sort through them. But if you are a gold member and take the time to view a profile multiple times, send flirts, hotlist and accept friend invites why can't you at least reply to the ones you've actually been trying to get the attention of?

Sorry for the long rant. I hope you have better luck here in the future. Take care!


guyfromkentucky 62M  
155 posts
11/16/2014 6:57 pm

This happens often to males as well as females. We're supposed to be adults. I can handle being told, "Sorry, not interested." That's much better than being left hanging when you think things are going OK.


KyJamster 68M
5 posts
2/8/2017 8:12 am

I hear and understand what you are saying. I have a lady friend who we enjoy playing as a couple. What burns my ass is when a supposed couple is wanting to meet and have fun. That's cool and great. BUT on more than one accation we see the man trying to come over without his partner. For us this is not acceptable. We are just wanting to have some couple action. Hell its easy to find a single man.
We have that covered. What we want is for the man as you say MAN UP. Tell it like it is.


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