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Blogs > rm_rakehell500 > Rakehell for the Heck of It

The Bang Gang  

rm_rakehell500 70M
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3/3/2015 3:46 pm

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3/3/2015 10:47 pm
The Bang Gang
This is neither a commentary or a question, just an observation.

By the eighties and nineties those papers and magazines designed for swinging were pretty common, and no longer restricted to just a small group. Some had wide subscriber lists from all over the world and while many of the ads were couples seeking other couples or singles for swinging there was another category that isn't talked about much.

The Gang Bang.

These adds usually went the same general way. A woman, usually married, was looking for multiple men (usually with '9 inch cocks' to have sex with in front of her husband. At times these ads actually outnumbered the ads for couples.

The other day I ran across a site that was devoted to women who had sex with other men in front of their husbands, I saw nothing about '9 inch cocks' but women today may be a bit more savvy about such things and not limiting their potential to such a small pool. Mostly it was women with teasing and humiliating comments to the hubby about how they had sex with another man and does it now turn him on.

I can understand the female side of this, sex is sex, and a bit of exhibitionism isn't unusual, but I'm not sure I get the male side. Participating with another man or the men in the mix maybe, even men with bigger cocks, but just watching your partner have sex with other men? I don't really get it.

I'm not condemning, just saying I don't get it.

I've been in threesomes when my partner took a break and watched, but she wasn't seated across the room in the loge seats watching us with popcorn and candy.

Assuming these sites are halfway honest and not just come-ons, this seems to be a fairly common male and female fantasy, but I wonder if it is one fulfilled often, or just a fantasy.

I can see women fantasizing about a Gang Bang. Humans will fantasize about anything when they are trying to get off and alone with that nasty little part of the brain all of us have that lets the Id get the best of the libido and goes where ever it takes.

And I know women who attend swingers groups do this more often within the group, but I'm talking about virtual strangers. I wonder how many women fantasizing about this are actually thinking or planning to do it with more or less anonymous men they won't see again, and how many want hubby to watch?




Lust brings you together, love keeps you there, sex keeps the mechanism lubricated.
rm_rakehell500 70M
4241 posts
3/3/2015 9:34 pm
    Quoting apollorising2021:
    I would not like to share my hot girlfriend with no other man or especially a group of men!
One other guy I did because she was curious and had only been with two other men in her life, but I was not an observer. But sitting there while went at it with a group of strange men? Sorry, I'm not that hip, or that generous.


Lust brings you together, love keeps you there, sex keeps the mechanism lubricated.


rm_rakehell500 70M
4241 posts
3/3/2015 8:17 pm
    Quoting  :
I'm not judging, just saying it is one I don't personally get. I think it is perfectly fine if both partners are into it, and I certainly don't mean a threesome with another man. I'm talking more about a fantasy I saw a great deal of women and men wanting the wife to be with multiple fantasies while the husband watched.

I've been in a threesome with another man. My wife enjoyed it, I had no problem with them together, but she would not have done multiple men she didn't know and I would not have been a witness on the side line.

That's me personally. I'm probably to selfish to share that way.

I do know some women have the fantasy of being taken by multiple men at the same time and some men of watching their wife indulge that fantasy.

If it doesn't sound too strange between two guys I think it is sweet that your want your wife to recognize she is still attractive to other men. And I think your attitude is great. To be honest I don't think any of mine would have felt that way at 90. They were pretty confident about that in the first place and if they hadn't been I ruined them.

But I admire you want to do that for her. I hope it is working. She sounds great and deserves to know she is loved by you and desired by others.


Lust brings you together, love keeps you there, sex keeps the mechanism lubricated.


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