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rm_rakehell500 70M
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1/22/2015 1:32 pm

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1/30/2015 6:24 pm
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In porn they always have her legs waving in the air so the camera can get in to show his face and her pussy, but in life most women get a bit more comfortable than that. Is there a favorite place you like to rest your feet when he (or she) is obliging you with oral sex?

Most of my partners have either braced their feet against my shoulders and pushed when the began to climax or rested their feet on my back or buttocks and drummed them when the moment came. I've been with some kickers, but not the majority..

Do you have a favorite, or just where ever is good that he won't stop doing it?

As a man I prefer when they brace against my shoulders because the pressure they apply helps me gauge what point the are at in the orgasm.



Lust brings you together, love keeps you there, sex keeps the mechanism lubricated.
rm_rakehell500 70M
4241 posts
1/30/2015 6:24 pm
    Quoting lil_whimsical:
    Oral sex-wise, I would have to say I prefer a 69- type position, I end up feeling a bit too "put on the spot" and expected to come on demand. It's much easier to come with a cock in my mouth. I don't come particularly easy just from oral (I usually need some internal stimulation too). And unless there's a reliable vibrator with that perfect buzz that can make me come in less than a minute, I have to be aroused and pretty well along to come - and most guys, if they are going to perform oral. It's going to be at the very-very beginning of the sexual interlude. Not after you've been fucking. Certainly not after they've come inside you (or after there's been a condom in you).

    (I don't get this, I go down on the guy constantly, between sexual positions.)

    It tends to be easiest to come, if my legs are straight and I can lock my knees.

    I don't find it surprising that so many women don't get oral and don't have orgasms with their partners. Even with well-experienced lovers, who know me well, I get little to no head and can go through three or more fuck-sessions in a row, without an orgasm, and no effort on their part to get me there. I've complained about that for eons on the blogs, and the response of guys is basically that it's hard to make me come. My response, is that it isn't - but ... yanno ... Ya have to actually try.

    Even with Doc, I have to out-right remind him he hasn't one down on me once in days, (and, yanno - sex 3-4 times a day over 3-4 days is a lot to not get oral) and his excuse is that he has no opportunity to because I'm the aggressor. (Translation, unless I flat out demand oral sex, or complain I don't get it, or physically shove my cunt in his face - it's not likely to happen on its own.)

    Sometimes - hard fucking (or even that Hitatchi Magic Wand) can just be too much stimulation (while it feels great and makes all sorts of other weird things happen) it isn't that final "release" of a genuine orgasm that actually makes you feel "relieved" and finished.

    The female orgasm can be elusive, most dudes don't really know what to do, and if they do, I guess it's just too much work and/or they become complacent.
Save for sixty-nine (I get told it is too distracting from what I'm doing) this is what I hear from most women, and apparently most guys who do it don't try that hard or aren't that good at it.

It isn't that hard to master. No teeth unless she is begging for them, take your time, take it easy until she is read for more, the clit comes last and starts lightly. Once you start don't stop, and if it is taking a while and she gets discouraged let her know you will be there as long as she lets you until she cums. Getting bras off is harder to learn.

Just fucking is fun too, but I want to spend time giving her pleasure, and women can have some really spectacular orgasms that I feel quite proud of helping them achieve. Sarah had a true hour long orgasm and passed out after, I preened like a peacock for a month.

Few women come quickly from oral regularly. Once in a while it happens, but usually its going to be a while. And too, I don't want her to come too quickly. Women past 35 can have incredibly deep long and powerful orgasms from oral sex and digital stimulation, but the technique depends on keeping them close to orgasm as long as possible before they finally climax.

I have no problem performing after intercourse anymore than I do kissing her after I cum in her mouth. I've been snowballed several times by women who would not have let me cum in their mouth if I didn't let them pass it on. If I'm willing to stick my tongue in her ass, my own cum isn't going to deter me.

It amazes me today so many men are bad at or don't do oral sex. I love the taste, scent, feel, and everything about doing it for a woman. Sarah used to laugh and say I looked like a glazed donut when I finished with her.

I love energetic intercourse, gentle intercourse, receiving oral, masturbating each other, but it feels incomplete if I don't perform oral on her, for her.

I guess I was just lucky to be well trained.


Lust brings you together, love keeps you there, sex keeps the mechanism lubricated.


lil_whimsical 53F
8781 posts
1/28/2015 12:26 pm

 Oral sex-wise, I would have to say I prefer a 69- type position, I end up feeling a bit too "put on the spot" and expected to come on demand. It's much easier to come with a cock in my mouth. I don't come particularly easy just from oral (I usually need some internal stimulation too). And unless there's a reliable vibrator with that perfect buzz that can make me come in less than a minute, I have to be aroused and pretty well along to come - and most guys, if they are going to perform oral. It's going to be at the very-very beginning of the sexual interlude. Not after you've been fucking. Certainly not after they've come inside you (or after there's been a condom in you).

(I don't get this, I go down on the guy constantly, between sexual positions.)

It tends to be easiest to come, if my legs are straight and I can lock my knees.

I don't find it surprising that so many women don't get oral and don't have orgasms with their partners. Even with well-experienced lovers, who know me well, I get little to no head and can go through three or more fuck-sessions in a row, without an orgasm, and no effort on their part to get me there. I've complained about that for eons on the blogs, and the response of guys is basically that it's hard to make me come. My response, is that it isn't - but ... yanno ... Ya have to actually try.

Even with Doc, I have to out-right remind him he hasn't one down on me once in days, (and, yanno - sex 3-4 times a day over 3-4 days is a lot to not get oral) and his excuse is that he has no opportunity to because I'm the aggressor. (Translation, unless I flat out demand oral sex, or complain I don't get it, or physically shove my cunt in his face - it's not likely to happen on its own.)

Sometimes - hard fucking (or even that Hitatchi Magic Wand) can just be too much stimulation (while it feels great and makes all sorts of other weird things happen) it isn't that final "release" of a genuine orgasm that actually makes you feel "relieved" and finished.

The female orgasm can be elusive, most dudes don't really know what to do, and if they do, I guess it's just too much work and/or they become complacent.


rm_rakehell500 70M
4241 posts
1/23/2015 7:16 pm
    Quoting  :
I think the reason I usually get them on my shoulders is because they are very broad and it's just a natural place to put them, but I do think it is cool the ladies on here get it often enough they know what their preference is for positioning their legs. I get the impression at times other places than on here, that it happens so seldom they don't know if they have a preference.

I am always surprised to meet middle aged women who tell me they have never received oral sex and never had an orgasm with a partner even when they have been married for years.

Of course I live in the buckle of the Bible Belt, but you would think they were still in the 1950's.


Lust brings you together, love keeps you there, sex keeps the mechanism lubricated.


rm_rakehell500 70M
4241 posts
1/23/2015 4:22 pm
    Quoting sweet_VM:
    I watched a lot of porn and it seems they have all kinds of different ways of doing it.. I would say I love my legs wrapped around his neck.. Best way to go! hugsssssss V

    Orgasms.. all the way..
Obviously they ate another Gif for no reason.

I love when she has her legs wrapped around my neck and her thighs tightly closed on my head, thrusting up to meet my mouth. No question you did something right then.


Lust brings you together, love keeps you there, sex keeps the mechanism lubricated.


sweet_VM 65F
81699 posts
1/22/2015 3:37 pm

 I watched a lot of porn and it seems they have all kinds of different ways of doing it.. I would say I love my legs wrapped around his neck.. Best way to go! hugsssssss V

Orgasms.. all the way..
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