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Edging
Edging Someone somewhere sits around and dreams these terms up, but edging is a teasing hand-job that at first frustrates orgasm (it seems to be primarily done to males), then ends one of two ways --- the orgasm is 'ruined or denied (who comes up with these terms?) or stimulation continues to torment the man or during the period of retraction when the male is the most sensitive until the man has one or more orgasms or loses his erection completely. You will notice in the images the men are all restrained, and you can imagine why. This is very intense, and few men would be able to withstand it without stopping their partner if they weren't restrained. For this reason it is often mixed with Femdom or S&M practices though most sex for both men and women includes erotic teasing only a little less intense than this, holding off orgasm, or bringing your partner again and again to the edge of orgasm and not letting them go over. That's an important aspect of the extended sexual orgasm or hour long orgasm experience. Erotic frustration I suppose. Many women will hesitate to try this because they are so sensitive in the retraction period, but for many men it is a place we simply cannot go by ourselves. You might want to ask about this first though. Fantasy aside actually having this forced on you might be less than erotic for some if not most men It didn't have a name --- or I didn't know it --- the first time I was 'edged' and yes, she had to restrain me because it is incredibly intense. You aren't good for much for a while after. Strangely, even though it is a truly intense pleasure you still have to be restrained every time, you never do get used to it. You never can not try to stop the stimulation because it is on the fine razor thin line between the most intense pleasure and just too damn much to take. I can see where some men would not like it or be too sensitive, but I can tell you it is one of the most powerful orgasmic experiences a man can endure, and the closest to a true multiple orgasm. Anyway it is called 'edging' for anyone who wants to try it or was doing it already and didn't know it had a name But first buy some good restraints and lots of lube. You'll need them.. Lust brings you together, love keeps you there, sex keeps the mechanism lubricated. |
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I suppose this could be torture, but the truth is it is so intense if he isn't tied up he won't let you keep at it. Unlike many women post orgasm it isn't really pain, but just overly intense sensation. I'm not into masochism, but I did enjoy this since it is something you can't do for yourself. You just will not keep stroking the way a second party does. Admittedly there was an S&M element to these pictures and the men in them were masochists, but this can be playful as well, and it is very intense for the male to the point he may become more vocal than you are used to. Just don't do this to anyone with a weak heart. Lust brings you together, love keeps you there, sex keeps the mechanism lubricated.
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Now that does look like lots of fun! hugsssssssss V Lube is a must! rakehell500 61M 2338 posts View my blog 10/25/2014 5:24 pm Add a comment Quote | Respond I guess some of my partners had a little sadist in them because they really enjoyed doing this to me, though not very often. Communication is key, because this can become too much very fast. My record was three orgasms and I'll grant the last was a bit tight and restrictive and firing nearly on empty, but it was also the only time I truly felt completely drained after sex --- literally drained at that. I could go more than three back then with rest between, but piled one on top of the other that was all I could take. I even had to beg off the next morning when I woke with an erection. I could barely stand when she washed it in the shower. It's not pain, but it is acute sensitivity at the very edge (thus edging) of too much. You might want to build up your right arm a bit. This can take up to twenty minutes if he stays or gets hard again after the first and second orgasms. You also need to learn the technique of squeezing the glans or shaft almost painfully so you can control when you let him cum, because he'll want to cum so much he will lie to you at that point. But if you want to see how much he can take, or a little payback of an erotic friendly kind for the times he has teased you to the edge again and again and then teased more when you did cum, this is the way to get it. You may want to make sure he signed the will and life insurance papers first though, Lust brings you together, love keeps you there, sex keeps the mechanism lubricated.
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Now that does look like lots of fun! hugsssssssss V Lube is a must! Become a blog watcher sweet_vm
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