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Why are hook ups so difficult?  

JandRitaKinkyfun 60M/61F
17 posts
2/27/2014 7:24 am
Why are hook ups so difficult?

I've decided to write this to ask, Why are hook ups so difficult to get right? We've met some great people, well we thought so at first. But then there always seems to be an issue in the bedroom. Maybe it's us? Help us answer this burning question.

sexynewf61 62M
2876 posts
2/27/2014 7:48 am

 That is a hard question to answer. Some of it could be the person is nervous or there is no connection. Just keep trying and you will meet the right people. Have lots of fun.
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Ne14_69wMe 56F
282 posts
2/28/2014 6:18 am

 It depends on your expectations, and the level of communication that occurs about likes and dislikes BEFORE play starts. There are a lot of people that are so eager to get naked, that they don't bother interviewing each other to see if they have the same sensibilities. Then when it comes down to play, they become disappointed. Some people enjoy the mechanical notions of play, others want more of a connection - a meeting of like minds, as it were.

If you're vetting prospects properly, everyone is happy.

That said, you could start with more information in your profile. It doesn't really say anything about your preferences, or what turns you on. You say "Just cause we are straight doesn't mean we aren't adventurous or curious," yet you list what you're looking for as men, women, or couples. What should someone conclude from that that wouldn't lead to your disappointment?

Basically, your profile doesn't really help you vet prospects. How else could it go?

Your mileage may vary.


MFM4UNOW 67M
57 posts
5/19/2015 6:42 am

 I have found that during the initial meeting during the conversation I will know if I want to continue to the bedroom with the couple. There needs to be chemistry between the three of us if it is to work out. Rita is very attractive so she will naturally turn some one on but it is more than physical attraction when I want to go to bed with a woman. I feel something special in my heart and mind that just clicks and makes me want to take her into my arms and kiss her. I am particular about having that feeling, I am for a real connection were we would melt into each other's arms as we kiss. That's when I know I want to go all the way.


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