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FreddyArmstrong 30M
3 posts
12/21/2013 6:09 pm
IM


Is it just me or does it never seem that when you message somebody on IM they don't respond. It just gives me a message saying please waiting for response from ..., it is weird because I can respond whenever somebody messages me and I do it immediately. Maybe it is just because all the girls on this site get spammed? If anybody sees this please respond

CJ_notgettingany 52M
84 posts
12/21/2013 6:42 pm

I've had the same issue. From what I've read and seen, the men to women ratio here is very high. So, I'm sure you are one of many trying to IM any woman online.


hippiechick1967 60F  
13154 posts
12/22/2013 7:12 am

I very rarely go on IM here, but when I do I immediately get paged by people all over the world. I am looking at my list for members who live within 20 miles of me, and then looking at their profiles to see if I want to contact them. I am not consciously 'ignoring' anyone, but if I do look at who is paging me, I'm not answering anyone who isn't within my preferences.

Keep at it - I've had some good experiences there a few times when I wanted to.

Elevate me...


FreddyArmstrong replies on 12/30/2013 11:49 pm:
haha thanks, I got a few people to respond to me had a few good chats.

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