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Don't be a 'dick'...  

BiRacialBBWButy 52F  
3 posts
9/23/2013 6:41 pm
Don't be a 'dick'...

This goes to the LADIES as well as the men here.

Don't be a dick.

And by that I mean, treat each other with respect. We all know why we're here...to find fuck mates. Great, that weeds out tons of 'dating and ltr crazy' cuz that's not what we're looking for. But really? Know what you do want, own it, stick to it.

If someone writes you, write them back. Even if it's to say you're not interested. It's a not that hard, hell even VisionPersonals.com has quick responses you can send. I'm not everyone's cup of tea. The same holds true for other people to me. But damn, thanks but no thanks goes a long way.

If you're talking to someone and you decide they're not your cup of tea...tell them! Again, get grown, get your big girl/big boy pants on and own it. Don't waste people's time.

Holy fuck, I am amazed at how just ignent supposedly grown assed people are.

kapp94 52M
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9/23/2013 7:11 pm

 Yes very true, lots of inconsiderate people all over this website which makes me take breaks from it. Each person you write to could at least reply and say no thank you or sorry or whatever their reply is, but a lot of people are standard members and only have limited emails to reply to per day, so that person chooses to reply to and who to ignore.

Kinda wish they'd get rid of the standard member option and just make it like bronze, silver, and gold. And maybe they could get rid of people who post more than 1 profile, especially when you can tell it is that person but the birthdate is changed but all the other information is the same. I wonder if VisionPersonals.com is hiring, could make so many suggestions on how to fix this site.


BiRacialBBWButy 52F  
7 posts
9/24/2013 4:59 am

 Having been a standard member for years, I can honestly say I truly doubt there are many people who are getting so much mail that they max out their reply options. Though it sounds like a truly nice excuse.

I actually don't think in the years I've been on this site I've initiated contact more than a handful of times, lol. Being a 'fat chick', I tend to let those who find me attractive let me know. So this rant is more in response to the complaints I hear from other people here.

I don't know that I agree the site shouldn't have a free option, having availed myself of it for years. And the duplicate profile problem might be a guy one, I've not experienced that very often.


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