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1/23/2015 9:13 pm

The Virtual Symposium: The One Piece of Advice I’d Give

The best advice I ever got… well it wasn’t really advise more of a realization… but if I had to put it into words it would be “Live and enjoy what you have, when you have it, because it can just be taken away without warning”.

Let me back up a bit, to explain.

I met an VisionPersonals.com member for coffee, a little over a month after I joined. We didn’t communicate much before the meeting, so there was a lot to talk about when we met, but I potentially fit the bill for what she was looking for and I’m all about meeting… it’s when the rubber really meets the road, so just get it done. Anyway when we met I was in for a few surprises… for one she looked much better and sexier than the picture she had sent me. We had had a lot of similar life and career experiences, and I found talking to her was like talking to an old friend. Our conversation lasted over 3 hours with no awkward pauses… it was that long because we got on that well, and I think it was partly by design on her part, because she didn’t want to scare me away. There were some peculiar kinks to her sex play, by what she explained along the way, many would be participants are scared off. One of the strange things that afternoon, is even though we were there to discuss fucking each other’s brains out, (we were both down for it, the attraction was there), very little of our conversation was about sex.

Now as for this ladies particular kinks… she was a submissive, who was given assignments from time to time by her D… her current assignment was to engage in an ongoing thing with someone who had my particular hue. The trysts would primarily be one-on-one but there would be some MFM, and gang-bang action on occasion. Now the D would never be present for any of this, she was in a long distance D/s relation, (the D lived somewhere in the southern United States). I would have to work out with the D via e-mail, what was going to happen from encounter to encounter, without her knowledge of what was coming. Did I mention she was married and that everything including MFM and the gang-bang action would be bareback… and there were several other twists of lessor importance. I was intrigued by this woman, and I very much liked the person I had met that afternoon, even though the whole setup scared the bejesus out of me. My head was spinning thinking about it all. She did mention, I was the first person that she was good with, who she actually got to completely explain the setup to, (all the other said “no thanks” before the end).

I started asking questions about the bareback… there would be testing before hand, and then an honor system, that helmets would be put on all soldiers when involved in any extracurricular activities. The husband: they do not engage in any physical intimacy, he declined to participate when she began exploring her sexual limits, but he is aware of her activities. The D and all the particular activities he is fond of having her experience in the past was also discussed. Then I asked her how long we would be engaged in our activities. She said it would continue as long as I’m still interested in continuing or the D decides the assignment is over. I was taken aback by this, I said to her… “we could do all this stuff together, be having the best sex of our lives, and he could just end it just like that”. She responded, “that’s life”. As I sat there with a bewildered look on my face, she explained… “you can plan everything in your life, and everything is just going along swimmingly, then out of nowhere some unknown force you can’t control can just come and take it all away, just like that”. “That’s why you have to enjoy every moment of what you’re doing and what you have”. It took a few minutes for me to fully ingest her point of view, but it made sense to me; a kind of light bulb moment.

So the best advice I'd give, is to “live and enjoy what you have, when you have it”

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kzoopair 73M/71F

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1/23/2015 9:37 pm

Fascinating! I presume you agreed...I think I might not have been able to. But the advice, "live and enjoy what you have, when you have it” is spot on.

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1/23/2015 9:39 pm

This is the best advice anyone could give! Life is full of surprises, good and bad. We need to enjoy the good ones as much as we can. What's the point of living and not enjoying?

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1/24/2015 4:28 am

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