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Another “Does Penis Size Matter?” Opinion… But This Time From A Lesbian  

khuXBFXM8u 62M
6260 posts
7/8/2014 2:38 pm
Another “Does Penis Size Matter?” Opinion… But This Time From A Lesbian

I stumbled across an article on another website that I wanted to share with the community. I would be so much easier if I could just throw up and external link, but since I can’t here is the article, penned by Red Velvet verbatim. Enjoy!

I feel like people have beaten this topic to death and yet, I still recently got asked the question: Can I please a woman with a below average penis?

Eek. At first I thought, maybe I’m not the person to ask because I’m a lesbian but then I thought, WAIT I’m actually the best person to ask because I’M A LESBIAN… which basically means that pretty much all of the sex I have is without a penis and I still managed to please my women. (I say “pretty much” all of the sex I have is without a penis because sometimes I feel particularly adventurous and bring out the strap on)

Now let me tell you why I think the number one reason that having a below average penis isn’t the biggest deal in the world: If I can get the job done just with the three inches that are my fingers, I’m pretty sure a below average penis can do it no matter how small.

A woman’s g-spot is only about 2-3 inches into her vagina and when it comes to penetration, the g-spot is the magic button. So, considering the average size of a penis is 5.5-6.3 inches, most men have more than enough to please a woman. In fact, that is even enough to hit her cervix, which hurts if you’re not careful! So basically, even if the length of your penis is considered rather small and below average, you still have what it takes to get her to cum during penetration.

Keep in mind that even if your penis was 12 inches, some women still can’t cum from penetration. So don’t neglect the clitoris. Never neglect the clitoris.

A final note: If you need help finding the g-spot, just know that it’s a small textured bump you’ll be able to feel.




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sexysixties2 106F
39750 posts
7/8/2014 3:04 pm

Very true....I have always said that size doesn't matter....it's what he can do with it that matters most.

"Age does not protect you from love, but love, to some extent, protects you from age."

~~Anais Nin~~


kzoopair 73M/71F
25831 posts
7/8/2014 3:36 pm

Another fine post...but I have a feeling the topic won't die. That's OK...more cover for me and my little stealth dick!

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pal334 69M  
45821 posts
7/8/2014 3:45 pm

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khuXBFXM8u 62M
10296 posts
7/8/2014 5:01 pm

    Quoting sexysixties2:
    Very true....I have always said that size doesn't matter....it's what he can do with it that matters most.
Can't argue with you Sexy.

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khuXBFXM8u 62M
10296 posts
7/8/2014 5:05 pm

    Quoting  :

Well yes, true, it has to comfortably fit in... but that's another area of debate give the elasticity of vagina.

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khuXBFXM8u 62M
10296 posts
7/8/2014 5:09 pm

    Quoting kzoopair:
    Another fine post...but I have a feeling the topic won't die. That's OK...more cover for me and my little stealth dick!
You are correct there, the topic will never die. If people are convinced that size matters, then it matter. The sex organ that trumps all, is still, and always will be, the brain.

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khuXBFXM8u 62M
10296 posts
7/8/2014 5:13 pm

Pal it was too good not to share. It is a very different, interesting and authoritative perspective.

Hopefully, our friends -E' and -H', will stop by and lend their collective wisdom.

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khuXBFXM8u 62M
10296 posts
7/8/2014 6:09 pm

    Quoting  :

I was counting on more insight from two would be Graeae that I know. Perhaps they will be gracious enough to abide, and give use deep insight.

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khuXBFXM8u 62M
10296 posts
7/8/2014 6:13 pm

    Quoting  :

It all about hitting spots.

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TXArmyWife 51F
1964 posts
7/8/2014 8:05 pm

Size has never mattered to me, either. Even though the topic has been beaten to death, there are lots of men who don't read. (For anyone who doesn't get that, I'm talking about profiles! Haha!) Anyway, I still answer it.

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khuXBFXM8u 62M
10296 posts
7/8/2014 8:37 pm

    Quoting TXArmyWife:
    Size has never mattered to me, either. Even though the topic has been beaten to death, there are lots of men who don't read. (For anyone who doesn't get that, I'm talking about profiles! Haha!) Anyway, I still answer it.
True it seems most men on this site don't read profiles, but on this subject (likely due to porn), they filter out the voices of the masses and only hear to size queens.

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openagenda 108M
6275 posts
7/8/2014 10:27 pm

"A final note: If you need help finding the g-spot, just know that it’s a small textured bump you’ll be able to feel."

Nope!!!

The small texture bump is the urethral sponge; also sensitive ... but ... the upper g spot is slightly deeper, smooth and varies from woman to woman.

You can stroke this one with a well placed finger in the cum hither motion pressing against the top of the vagina "wall" slightly deeper than the urethral sponge.

Yup, there is more than one g spot.

If you really want the full physiological facts, click "Does Size Matter ... The Facts" listed below. It has ALL the medical based facts.


lil_whimsical 53F
8781 posts
7/8/2014 10:27 pm

There's a big difference between what can be done with a penis and what can be done with fingers. If it's work to be done by a penis, it has to be an adequate size or they have to be extra good at all the other stuff in order for the sex to be good.

That said - there is absolutely no substitute for a good sized dick on a guy who knows how to use it.


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
7/9/2014 1:52 am

As is said, short and thick does the trick, and long and thin goes straight in!


khuXBFXM8u 62M
10296 posts
7/9/2014 8:00 am

    Quoting openagenda:
    "A final note: If you need help finding the g-spot, just know that it’s a small textured bump you’ll be able to feel."

    Nope!!!

    The small texture bump is the urethral sponge; also sensitive ... but ... the upper g spot is slightly deeper, smooth and varies from woman to woman.

    You can stroke this one with a well placed finger in the cum hither motion pressing against the top of the vagina "wall" slightly deeper than the urethral sponge.

    Yup, there is more than one g spot.

    If you really want the full physiological facts, click "Does Size Matter ... The Facts" listed below. It has ALL the medical based facts.
The existence and location of the G-spot is another long debated issue. Most believe is a textured bump, while other believe the textured bump is the urethral sponge, a third opinion is that they may be one in the same in some women. One thing I am pretty confident of, (and it is verified by external genitalia), no two women are put together exactly the same way.

So let not loss the point this article is trying to make over the G-spot location issues.

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khuXBFXM8u 62M
10296 posts
7/9/2014 8:11 am

    Quoting lil_whimsical:
    There's a big difference between what can be done with a penis and what can be done with fingers. If it's work to be done by a penis, it has to be an adequate size or they have to be extra good at all the other stuff in order for the sex to be good.

    That said - there is absolutely no substitute for a good sized dick on a guy who knows how to use it.
Well I don't have the required testing equipment, as I only have one penis sample to go by, so I can't debate the relative size issue with you from a point of knowledge

But the point the article is making at least from her point of view (and the majority of women seem to back this point), is an average or below average penis size, is a good enough size when the man attached to it know how to use it. To crush the size queen / king generality, and use a sports analogy... a home run is a home run, whether it just clears the 300 foot mark in left field, or it's crushed to dead center, right out of the stadium. One looks more impressive, but the result is still the same.

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khuXBFXM8u 62M
10296 posts
7/9/2014 8:15 am

    Quoting spunkycumfun:
    As is said, short and thick does the trick, and long and thin goes straight in!
nice saying TC. I don't have to receptive equipment to test your hypothesis, so they ladies will have to confirm or deny.

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khuXBFXM8u 62M
10296 posts
7/9/2014 8:17 am

    Quoting AmeliaCox:
    My take is that the level of attraction between the participants in the act will dictate whether there's orgasms all-round.
Certainly, attraction or more to the point arousal is no doubt a key contributor.

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khuXBFXM8u 62M
10296 posts
7/9/2014 8:21 am

    Quoting George_W_Johnson:
    Size does matter!!! not to all women, but there are some that prefer a larger penis - there are also some that prefer a smaller penis. it is THEIR choice a prefernce

    as a small than average guy I'm sensitive to this issue but I do know that the few that have let me try have found satisfaction with me ... at least to a degree ... and have let me keep coming back

    I have come to the realization that SOME fantasies require certain dimensions - and I will not be able to help in those cases
Yes, for those who have fantasies and pre-conceived notions... size, cut/uncut, and shape will contribute to the arousal factor, which is most important to satisfaction. The sex organ that need the most and correct type of stimulation is still the brain.

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sweet_VM 65F
81699 posts
7/9/2014 3:01 pm

So true size doesn't matter at all hugs V

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khuXBFXM8u 62M
10296 posts
7/9/2014 11:45 pm

    Quoting AmeliaCox:
    Ok, I lay corrected (I'm laying down at the moment)... How much the people involved arouse eachother... Much of this arousal will be a by-product of attraction.
Yes, definitely a by product.

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khuXBFXM8u 62M
10296 posts
7/9/2014 11:47 pm

    Quoting sweet_VM:
    So true size doesn't matter at all hugs V
Unless you are smaller than a ladies fingers.

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khuXBFXM8u 62M
10296 posts
7/9/2014 11:48 pm

    Quoting  :



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khuXBFXM8u 62M
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7/9/2014 11:49 pm

    Quoting  :

I like that... mind candy.

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khuXBFXM8u 62M
10296 posts
7/12/2014 12:15 am

    Quoting  :

Every woman is built a little differently... by deep into the pussy would be more the "A' spot instead of the "G". I think what does it for one woman may not do it for the next.

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