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Secrets To Know About Women
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Secrets To Know About Women I read a lot about sex and relationship both on and off VisionPersonals.com. I came across an interesting article on WebMD, listing secret and not so secret things men should know about women. I wanted to share it with the Ville, and get your take on it. Here is an edited version of the list. 1. A Caring Guy Is a Hot Guy Women appreciate a guy with a sensitive side, especially when they're upset. Put your arm around her and hand her a tissue. Nurturing is a powerful way to connect. 2. Chivalry Still Has a Place When it comes to romance, many women do like men to take a traditional masculine role. 3. Dress to Impress Styles come and go, but a man's attention to his grooming and clothing should be long lasting. 4. Guy Wears Red, Guy Gets Girl OK, this tip doesn't come from women, but from clever testing by psychologists of women's subconscious preferences. One intriguing study found that the color red made men seem more powerful, attractive, and sexually desirable to women. There's a caveat, though. Red doesn't make guys appear nicer or kinder. 5. Don't Hide Your Flaws Nothing captures a woman's heart quite like a good man who wants to be a better man. 6. Don't Try to Fix Her World When something's bothering her, she wants your ear, not your advice. 7. Nodding Is Not Enough Listening is important, but she also wants to know that she is being heard. Nodding along won't cut it. When she pauses, she's giving you a cue to respond in a compassionate, caring way. 8. Date No. X Is Not a Bedroom Key The X dates before sex rule is an urban legend. Women don't set a timeline on when they'll invite a potential partner into the bedroom. Some need more some need less. 9. Women Like The Slow Lane Guys often want to take the quickest path to sex. But many women prefer the scenic route. "Women want sex but they get to it in a different way. 10. Safe Sex Is a Turn-On Show of hands, do you wants an STD or an unplanned pregnancy? 11. Learn What She Wants in Bed Women do like to talk to about what's going on in the sack, and they want to please their man -- and a tactful approach is often best. Ask her what she likes. Be sure to ask for what you want in a positive and validating way. 12. Performance Anxiety Is Shared When you have an off night and can't perform, she feels bad, too. She might worry that she no longer turns you on and she will want assurance that that is not true. She will want to talk about what's going on and what you are doing about it, especially if it's a recurring problem. 13. Mirroring Is a Barometer of Love Remember the saying "imitation is the highest form of flattery"? A woman often conveys how she feels about you by mirroring your moods and moves. She may order a meal that pairs with yours, wear your favorite color, or smile or cross her arms when you do. Mimicking is her way of putting you at ease and letting you know she is charmed. 14. Your Shirt May Be a Love Magnet Does your partner curl up in your sweater or sneak into your work shirt? Some researchers have found that the scent of a man's perspiration has a relaxing effect on women. 15. Women like to be told they look nice, and they like a man who notices without being told. 16. Don't Fear the Relationship Talk When your woman wants to talk about the relationship, it doesn't mean you did something wrong (well, not necessarily). Many women like to talk about the "state of the union" -- what's going right, what's going wrong, or simply what's going on. This is a good thing. An honest, wide-ranging talk can bring the two of you closer. 17. Look Your Partner in the Eye Women prefer their men to make eye contact with them as they're talking. And looking her in the eye during sex will deepen the relationship both in and outside the bedroom. 18. Romance Is Simple; Keep It Coming Romance is something she will always want, whether you've been together two months or 20 years. Is there anything on the list that surprises you, or something that you feel is just flat out wrong? Have you ever done or experiences anything on the list? If you have could you share your experiences? Find pleasure in giving pleasure |
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They're all good points....he has a good understanding of women but I too disagree about wearing red.  ~~Anais Nin~~
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Sounds all very Vanilla to moi.  #15 seems to be the LUST on eh eff eff.  For less vanilla, see Women Complex, then add: • women want to be kissed for no reason. • notice, mention and look after the little things. • above all, hold her hand. See not so complex.  Come visit openagenda: provocative thought, adult discussions, sexy pics & giggles.  Is This How Friday The GET IT ON Solution MASSAGE exploring partners SEDUCTION Love What is it Relationship Rules Trust and other Issues Essence Be In Tune Does Size Matter The Facts Hand in Hand
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I'm not surprised by #1 and the RED thing is a bit of a surprise, but it's apparently based on physiological testing. Funny that you current profile pic has your lovely legs set against some red velvet.  Find pleasure in giving pleasure
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They're all good points....he has a good understanding of women but I too disagree about wearing red. Find pleasure in giving pleasure
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Sounds all very Vanilla to moi. #15 seems to be the LUST on eh eff eff. For less vanilla, see Women Complex, then add: • women want to be kissed for no reason. • notice, mention and look after the little things. • above all, hold her hand. See not so complex. Find pleasure in giving pleasure
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Find pleasure in giving pleasure
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some very good points here... A general wrap up... Be Genuine - Sincere - Open - COMMUNICATE Find pleasure in giving pleasure
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Ok red it is then!  Find pleasure in giving pleasure
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17. Look Your Partner in the Eye Women prefer their men to make eye contact with them as they're talking. And looking her in the eye during sex will deepen the relationship both in and outside the bedroom. I'm horrible with this one... my ex always wanted to look me in the eyes while making love, and I was always closing them to focus on the sensations better lol The smell of a man's perspiration? Not so much necessarily. But just "The smell of her man" yes. Mix of perspiration, soap, cologne or body spray, etc. Just the unique "him" scent. And if after 8 years you suddenly switch the scent you wear?   Be prepared for a very upset woman. At least that's my opinion. "You don't smell like you anymore. Who is she?"
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Wonderful advise you found and it seem he has a good handle on what women want. I am not a red person never have been. I have red hair and red doesn't do anything for me at all.. Happy Tuesday hugs V Become a blog watcher sweet_vm
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17. Look Your Partner in the Eye Women prefer their men to make eye contact with them as they're talking. And looking her in the eye during sex will deepen the relationship both in and outside the bedroom. I'm horrible with this one... my ex always wanted to look me in the eyes while making love, and I was always closing them to focus on the sensations better lol The smell of a man's perspiration? Not so much necessarily. But just "The smell of her man" yes. Mix of perspiration, soap, cologne or body spray, etc. Just the unique "him" scent. And if after 8 years you suddenly switch the scent you wear? Be prepared for a very upset woman. At least that's my opinion. "You don't smell like you anymore. Who is she?"Same scent for 8 years  I like to switch it up daily. During the summer with multiple showers a day, a different scent after each. I guess I would drive you crazy. Find pleasure in giving pleasure
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Wonderful advise you found and it seem he has a good handle on what women want. I am not a red person never have been. I have red hair and red doesn't do anything for me at all.. Happy Tuesday hugs V Find pleasure in giving pleasure
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I don't think red skin pants was part of the evaluation process. Find pleasure in giving pleasure
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I'm surprised that men who wear red are more likely to attract women. 
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I'm surprised that men who wear red are more likely to attract women. Find pleasure in giving pleasure
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I agree with all of them, basically. I can't say I've ever noticed a man wear red, though? Now "pink" has always impressed me. I suppose it is a shade of red.? I also recall reading something in some magazine that told women to wear red to attract a man. There was also a poll on what color of nail polish they find the most attractive. Answer: Red. I blushed at #13 -- realizing I ordered the same thing he did last time. I had thought of ordering something else -- he just said "Salmon on Cedar" and I suddenly was all "Oh yes, get me that. "
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I agree with all of them, basically. I can't say I've ever noticed a man wear red, though? Now "pink" has always impressed me. I suppose it is a shade of red.? I also recall reading something in some magazine that told women to wear red to attract a man. There was also a poll on what color of nail polish they find the most attractive. Answer: Red. I blushed at #13 -- realizing I ordered the same thing he did last time. I had thought of ordering something else -- he just said "Salmon on Cedar" and I suddenly was all "Oh yes, get me that. " Find pleasure in giving pleasure
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Interesting post. Actually I recognize many of the points mentioned here. Hugs! A única alegria isenta de amargura é a de bem proceder.
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Interesting post. Actually I recognize many of the points mentioned here. Hugs! Find pleasure in giving pleasure
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I hear what you are saying. With number 3 I think the real point is pay attention to the details. Women tend to notice things like to condition of footwear, nose hair, stains on clothing, hair condition, etc. men don't tend to spend a great deal of time fussing over these. Another big thing (pet peeve of mine, and judging by how often I see it mentioned in women's profiles), hygiene! No reason to ever be nasty. #4 a follow-up post What Colour Attracts Women tackles that monster. #11 Your comment is exactly the point as I understand it. Just like when navigating to a new location without a GPS or map, men wouldn't stop and ask directions. Men need to start asking, because women want to show and tell. #13 it is unconscious mimicking that is being spoken about. Find pleasure in giving pleasure
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I've learned long ago -- men are valuable. His choice was so much better than mine would of been!!!! The salmon dissolved, in my mouth.
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I've learned long ago -- men are valuable. His choice was so much better than mine would of been!!!! The salmon dissolved, in my mouth. Find pleasure in giving pleasure
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