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Blogs > WeWantAdventures > Adventures Await!

The Married "Single" Guy  

WeWantAdventures 62M/60F
87 posts
4/13/2014 5:27 am
The Married "Single" Guy

Recently we have been approached by a number of single men who actually have turned out to be married. We have a hard rule - we will not consider a married person without the spouse - and that goes both ways. We made this decision as we entered the lifestyle, and have no intentions of changing it.

Today We were messaged by a guy whose profile says he is single. When we said we weren't seeking a single man, he replied and said "That's OK - I'm married and she doesn't play".

Seriously??? That makes it OK?

We have also been approached by men pretending to be a couple, only to be told after a few conversations that she "isn't interested" in playing but he sure is!

We have heard how the wife has lost interest, how he wants to explore, and a number of different variations. Our response is simple - no spouse no thanks! If your spouse doesn't want you why would we???

P is really turned off by this part of the lifestyle, and it is starting to color her response to folks who are real and genuine. Her first question is "Think they are real?"

We have stated we will reach out to anyone - including single men - we might have an interest in - and now, had to change it to not interested in single men due to the number of rude asshats we have encountered.

Shame that the idiots are ruining what could be a great adventure!

reallyready46 64M
1383 posts
4/13/2014 7:50 am

 Nothing new here, this has been going on for years. The lifestyle has had these people ( men and Women ) in it for ages. Its good that you have made your choices on what you seek. This is one reason I like to meet in public so any surprises like this can be unveiled away from my home.


Ourfantasy75 48M
26 posts
4/13/2014 5:42 am

 Sorry you have to deal with this. It permeates every part of the site. Hurts married guys, and other single guys who are trying to find someone. They play a numbers game. Just can't act every possible sexual contact. It's frustrating as people like yourselves and women are inundated with mail and anyone contacting them with better intentions make it tougher to get through... It sucks!


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