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Blogs > 39FallenLilAngel > Confessions of a sex addict...

Is trust an issue in the bedroom for you?  

39FallenLilAngel 49F
89 posts
2/2/2014 10:51 pm
Is trust an issue in the bedroom for you?
Is trust an issue in the bedroom for you?

This being single and "hooking-up" shit is for the birds! I think I got enough of it to last a lifetime.
At the same time, it's just fast, meaninless sex. It really makes me wonder "why the heck did I even get undressed for this shit?"

I have been in long term relationships. I will say the sex was always better, because I trusted my partner. I knew him, he knew me, and my limits, No surprises! I am not a fan of them. We would talk about it first, etc..

For me to let go, I have to trust the guy I am with. Period.
Plus one night stands, or fuck buddies or whatever the hell the are calling it these days... they will never get what I know damn good and well what I am capable of bringing to the bedroom. They don't deserve it!
Yes
No


shysexual_MTgirl 42F  
370 posts
2/22/2014 7:47 pm

 Trust is an issue for me. But I had a FWB for nearly 5 years, and I trusted him. The more I got to know him, the better things got between us. I knew he wanted to be right where he was, he knew my body, he knew what I liked. His words, his touch, meant equal satisfaction. When the benefits ended, I found myself having a hard time trusting another man enough to let him into my sexual life. It was nearly 2 years after him that I finally took the plunge and met another man. It was not a good experience. I've met a couple of guys since and have found some pressure, but not like I did with my former fwb. So, yes trust means something.


NipplenPussyseek 64M
7 posts
5/9/2015 4:50 am

 I have a hard time trusting someone I just met for me it takes time to know a person then after a while the trust will come or go


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