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You know the encounter will never happen,  

porterpiper1 57F
209 posts
1/12/2017 2:09 am
You know the encounter will never happen,

Look I am not the best looking woman in the world. I may look good to some and ugly to others. But I just can't understand why people contact people about getting together when you live countries and states apart, I know some will travel to meet but not everyone will, I have gotten several messages from men from other countries and two or more states apart about getting together, REALLY? I am going to leave the safety of my home and state to meet someone I never met or know anything about for a sexual encounter? Yes I know some people will. I am not one of those people. I know that a lot of people on here are standard members and can't read profiles, BUT people state or country they live in is posted by their name, I don't send messages to anyone who live more than 25 miles away from me to get together, but having just a friend to chat with I don't care how far you live, we are chatting as friend, People want to say that there are too many fakes and flakes on here, Well think about who you are sending messages to and where they live, I have read blogs from people who got stood up from people living in the same city, So why would I take the chance of trusting someone who live hundreds or thousand of miles away from me? We all are adults on here ( I hope ) think before you send that message wanting to get to know someone who live so far away from you. I am not trying to offend anyone, just saying you have to think with your brain not with your sexual needs or wants. Thank you for your comments and feedback

Softnsweet64 59F
16 posts
7/18/2017 8:08 pm

 You are so right. It's unrealistic to imagine hooking up with a person who is thousands of kilometers away. Though I will share with you that one guy flew to my city for a one night stand. I remember telling him at the time that must be the most expensive fuck. But it was worth it. We fucked all night


discreteSteve62 50M
2169 posts
6/19/2017 1:48 pm

 When I was unattached, I'd drive a long way for good sex, or even so-so sex. Even a couple of hours each way wouldn't have been too much trouble. I didn't flake, though there have been occasions where what seemed like a good idea through on-line contact didn't seem as attractive in person, but a meeting that doesn't lead to anything is not at all the same thing as being a no-show.

But now all I have to do is smile the right way at someone who lives in the same house and we both get good or great sex, and that changes the balance a lot.


CynicusMaximus 52M
1844 posts
1/28/2017 4:20 am

 Hey, baby

Wanna hook up in ten minutes, there's only 645 miles between us and i have an empty afternoon schedule.

For some, I'm sure it's just an opportunity for interaction. I think the blogs tend to blur the miles a little, but I've tried the long distance thing here before and it always ends with some kind of resentment in the end.


Otis_Good 71M
4037 posts
1/12/2017 10:50 am

 Lot of them ain't breathed a breath of free air in years and have a lot to go on their sentence . Then you have the ones that just lonely and bored and don't have the nerve or means to go out and find somebody on their own . That is my guess anyway . I know when I worked at the pea farm there was one woman who would write them stories about fucking and the inmates sold the stories for a dollar a read .


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