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Occasional F*** buddy or companion of the heart?
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Occasional F*** buddy or companion of the heart? Time for more ramblings. So - what should a married man be looking for, assuming that for whatever reason he's on here looking for some female company? An occasional f*** buddy with whom a series of irregular rolls-in-the-hay may be shared? OR Someone with whom you become emotionally attached, with all the complications this inevitably brings for both of you. Let's look at the first: A clandestine meeting at some romantic Travelodge, Holiday Inn, Premier Inn or equally upmarket establishment. A hotel room with all the romance of a dentist's waiting room, the distant yet insistent thrum of the adjacent motorway, the mould growing along the seals of the bath and wash basin, the makings of a very substandard cup of tea with "instant dairy creamer", the clearly audible conversations, grunts, snores, farts and moans from next door (hang on, if you can hear them....) Well no, it is possible to meet in a hotel with a little more appeal, and I would certainly recommend spending a few quid more and finding something appealing. If you're staying overnight, of course you can relax and enjoy each other's company and not feel rushed. Much nicer than feeling you need to be in the action non-stop for 90 minutes, because you both then need to leave. So what of the experience? it scratched an itch, it was fun, you went your separate ways. But hang on, wouldn't you like to spend more time with each other? would the time have been better spent getting to know each other? This is where I probably fall down in my search for a lady via this website. I cannot just enjoy a spell of horizontal jogging, then vanish into the night completely satisfied, until the next time. It has to be more than that. It has to be about getting to know another human being. Finding out what makes them tick, what they enjoy and what they aren't too keen on (not just in the sack!). I read a profile from a young lady on here that, sadly for me, was young enough to be my , who wrote something along these lines: The human brain is the biggest turn-on we have, the most attractive thing we're equipped with. I'd never considered that, but as soon as I read it, it made perfect sense. For me, I can never just enjoy a wham bam thank you ma'am experience. I imagine it must be a desperately lonely existence trying to find companionship in the arms of a , regardless of sex, which is why I imagine so many of them advertise a "Girl Friend Experience" i.e. their customer will, for 1 or 2 hours, be made to feel that they are loved and valued, not just tolerated for the sake of a handful of banknotes. I will probably continue to get involved on all levels, emotionally, intellectually, and will always want to feel that any companion and I are enjoying each other's company, whether we're in bed, washing dishes, watching TV, listening to music or whatever. |
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