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I have very few computer skills....I am a late starter!  I am in general a right handed three fingered typer and used to use spellcheck, but now I just have to proof read my comments before I post. Have I the magic words here to get you wet or did you just spill your water...I know it has been a few years since your water broke!  My eyebrows did a flip when I read that a man might have an hours worth of fun. I don't know if a man, who can write well, can get laid any easier or more than one who doesn't know how to put his thoughts into type!
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Writing well takes alot of effort for some folks! [I]Da Focker!!
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9/10/2014 11:30 pm |
lol .. funny you should say this... actually .. pardon me for not knowing how I came to your blog.. I was in blogs and I have a blog.. this one isn t as good as the blog I had as newlysep3 .. but that a different story for a different time............. my last blog was the testimonials from women I got when I was newlysep3 only one was from a ex gf while we were together before I left pa and moved to ca.. if your really interested.. see my blogs.. LOL.. happy reading......    ? face piles of trials with smiles.. MOODY BLUES please feel free to visit my blog happy blogging
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I think someone who can write well is going to get laid more, other things being equal. 
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"Writing well" is a judgement based on such criteria as: - No spelling mistakes; - Grammatically correct; - Expressive. In other words, they write more than a few words at a time; and - Descriptive. In other words, their words evoke imagery that stimulates mind and body. For those guys who can't meet these criteria, I recommend: - Taking a typing class. (It worked for me in high school!); and - Applying a cock enlarger. A woman may not care as much for the above criteria if he can compensate for them somehow. lol
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like with any skill...the more you do it, practice it, and just do it, then the easier it gets. There are new speak and type programs they can use. I have tried using the smart phone and its small key board to type responses on blogs....I make lots of mistakes doing this. But, I will keep practicing and hopefully I will get more efficient. See ya, VF “Life is available only in the present moment.” Thich Nhat Hanh Come and read my blog! Become a watcher! veryfunnycple64 
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Honestly.... I haven't met any man who was any better at the spoken word than he was at the written word. Their first contact or two, via email usually, is a super indicator of how they will communicate. A concise email for a first contact is acceptable but it has to contain complete sentences with decent grammar. If I'm interested, he'll get a lengthier email back from me and if he chooses to not respond in a similar way then I lose interest. I'm so past trying to draw out a guy via conversation (text/chat/email/whatever). It seems like men my age are so lazy, they don't have anything to have an actual dialogue with, they only want to talk about how horny they are or about their sexual glory days! BORING!!!
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I don't doubt that being a good writer is a plus on this site. Good communication skills are always a plus, and on this site, that means written communications skills. However, I'd also propose that bad writing skills are a more important factor than good writing skills. Emails and posting that are full of typos and bad grammar are sufficient to keep a person from making a connection, but good writing skills are probably not sufficient to enable a connection. A connection, especially one that leads to sex, probably requires a wider range of skills and characteristics, e.g. appearance, similar likes and dislikes, age, location, sense of humor, etc. And whether we like to admit it or not, appearance is probably way more important that writing skill for most people.
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I think they are still getting laid no matter what sight they are on. Ones that can write better might have a better chance then most hugssssssssssssss V Become a blog watcher sweet_vm
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While women don't want slick or facile, they do seem to appreciate a man who can express himself, and generally if you can express yourself on paper you can also express yourself in person. I think the greatest gift is the ability to open up without appearing overly vulnerable or morose or to come on charmingly without coming on too strong. You need insight and to pay attention to read when a woman wants to be seduced and intrigued and when she wants you to be more direct. Most importantly it can never be a line, an act, schtick, or a come on. If it works it has to be real --- and once you can fake that... If you do crowd a woman into bed its likely going to be an one time thing, and if you pressure her and don't prove to be all that good she will turn quickly. Most of all, women want you to listen and through listening, without asking a lot of questions, get them and what they want. I can talk someone's ear off but I get a lot farther in terms of quality and enjoyment when I listen I'm attentive, and I pay enough attention to read the signals. That said, the three I married did everything but rip my clothes off and take advantage of me. Subtle with them was waiting until you finished undressing to put the condom on. Whatever else it certainly saves on worrying what she is thinking.  Lust brings you together, love keeps you there, sex keeps the mechanism lubricated. 
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Well, that puts me on the lower end of the scale, in this subject, I'm a hunt and pecker, barely type fast enough to be in a chat room, don't spell worth a dang, spell check does not work on this site, but i still have fun and i am still fun, that's whats important, right? Oh, and patients goes a long way.-----
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I think its quite important for both men and women on this site. All we have is written communication from the start, and you only get once chance for the all important first impression. Having said that, all you have to do is be polite and be yourself. I said one other time; I wouldn't say to a woman in a bar "hey do you want to see naked pictures of myself" so why would I start a conversation with a woman on here like that. Same rules of decency apply. For those that are language challenged - I'm sure its tougher.
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Age is no excuse for poorly typed emails or profiles. In this day in age so much of what we do, business or in our personal life requires the use of communication by the written word. Most definitely IMing or texting can result in a too quick to hit send because of the fast pace. An occasional typo in an email will happen, but with spell check and the opportunity to read what you write before sending...they should be minimal. As for profiles...absolutely no excuse. Even if you post with a typo, you can always edit. As for the quality of what's written...usually if someone can express themselves in writing they also do well orally ...or should I say speaking (hehe). However, i have encountered some who do better communicating online and have few social skills in person.
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Honestly.... I haven't met any man who was any better at the spoken word than he was at the written word. Their first contact or two, via email usually, is a super indicator of how they will communicate. A concise email for a first contact is acceptable but it has to contain complete sentences with decent grammar. If I'm interested, he'll get a lengthier email back from me and if he chooses to not respond in a similar way then I lose interest. I'm so past trying to draw out a guy via conversation (text/chat/email/whatever). It seems like men my age are so lazy, they don't have anything to have an actual dialogue with, they only want to talk about how horny they are or about their sexual glory days! BORING!!! I look fwd to when you decide to go after men 1/2 your age. 
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intendadiversion replies on 9/11/2014 11:58 pm: I always read other women cutting up guys who send crappy emails so I think the ability to type and or write does help a man in this computer age. You write well Lok. Thank you for the confidence, my dear friend! I too have read women cutting up guys who send crappy emails, but I don't understand the crap some men send and expect a woman to pay attention to them.......I believe being honorable and respectful will get one somewhere..even on this site!
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I belive that I have a fairly good command of the english lanuage and a wicked sense of humour. Neither, I feel, have improved my chances on this site. They say a picture speaks a thousand words. Maybe I should remove the picture and that will shorten the message.
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Well, I know I do not write well (I are a Engineer) but spell check and a great office administrator helped me get by in the business world. I also am a terrible speller so that is another problem. My typing skills have deteriorated because I try to type to fast. I believe though that men with better typing and language skills do a bit better because of first impression.
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Well, well, what a refreshing post this is. When I saw the post title I thought to myself, "here we go again, another one of those spelling and grammar bashing rants". But I was wrong. You are a real live heroine. Small minded folks who get hung up on spelling a grammar are clearly ignorant of the history and prime purpose of language. Indeed by their narrow minded standard William Shakespeare himself would be classified as illiterate, with one of his crimes being the invention of over a thousand new words in the English language. Attempts to standardise English spelling were only made after the invention of the printing press. Before that, the scribes who copied manuscripts by hand would have been considered highly educated yet they would spell the same word a dozen different ways on a single page in an age where the language was unrecognisable from one generation to the next. And the standardisation of English grammar followed only a couple of centuries ago. But language was never meant to be a status symbol. It is simply a practical means of communicating and as such cannot remain static while technology has moved from pen and paper to tapping a touch sensitive screen. Like it or not the abbreviated colloquial spelling and grammar that is much criticised today will become the communication standard and most likely smileys will become part of the alphabet. Sir Teezalot WAR IS ABSURD
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For me, yes they have better success, with me anyway. I try to cut guys some slack as long as they're not typing weird on purpose. The drummer of my fave band has trouble spelling but he is an amazing musician and very smart. So I try to remember some guys don't come off smart online. But it definitely makes me notice the guy more when he can have an intelligent conversation. I sent an Angel to watch over you last night, it returned in a hurry. I asked why, it said "Angels can't watch porn." Thanks for fucking traumatizing my fucking Angel! Don't bother trying to figure me out. Not even the little voices in my head understand me. It's pointless!
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9/20/2014 8:42 am |
lol .. funny you should say this... actually .. pardon me for not knowing how I came to your blog.. I was in blogs and I have a blog.. this one isn t as good as the blog I had as newlysep3 .. but that a different story for a different time............. my last blog was the testimonials from women I got when I was newlysep3 only one was from a ex gf while we were together before I left pa and moved to ca.. if your really interested.. see my blogs.. LOL.. happy reading...... ?so I don t know if that s a good thing or a bad thing.. that s why it s funny.. they liked me for my blog. face piles of trials with smiles.. MOODY BLUES please feel free to visit my blog happy blogging
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For the most part, I can tell the difference between someone who isn't good with the written word, English is someones second language and someone who didn't pay much attention in English class. With the presentation of the message, I can tell which of these these categories the person falls under. I don't necessarily ignore a person for not being good with putting their thoughts into words, forgetting to use the right their,they're there, or English is the person's second language, unless it's something that offends me. I definitely ignore those who never bothered to pay attention in class...the type that write like this: "Wut u up 2?"
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I am not here to judge a dudes grammar. I just know if I'm attracted to him if I'm into him and if he's into me or want to be into me that's all matters this is a sex site not school
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Rite!? i h8 wen peepl use incorect gramar and spelin espesialy wen they just rite sentences continously w/out the rite punctuation i wish every one new how sentences worked just want it to be dun good
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Women in general appreciate getting the big picture, organizing, verbal expression, humor, and good writing skills - well according to a number of posts on this site they do. So the guy who can write well might be more appealing, good humor included, to a woman. It might give him an edge however I think he still will have a great amount of competition to contend with. The guys personality will also matter. So for our writing-challenged lovers is there any hope? Of course there is! An equalizer might be a profile pic of a big dick, decent abs, decent looks...plus a warm personality. Just need to get a conversation going. There are many women who go for those things above the ability to write.
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