Hookup, Find Sex or Meet Someone Hot Now
Reset Password
Reset Link Sent
Hookup, Find Sex or Meet Someone Hot Now
| Blogs > evergrnstatewife > Mrs. evergreenstatewife |
Musings with The Madam
|
Musings with The Madam The term ‘pussy is a privilege,’ is synonymous with just about any cuckolding site you go to. It’s a catchy term used to reinforce the sexual roles within the relationship. If you’re looking at it in terms of the relationship itself, it could be the sole defining moment of cuckoldry for a couple. As a young man I thought, and felt, sex was a given whenever you were dating someone. I believed that simply because I was a man, sex was expected anytime I felt the urge to. That style of thinking lasted my entire young adult life and throughout the beginning of my marriage to my wife. To be honest it caused quite a few skirmishes with us. It’s no wonder. My thinking was modern caveman. A knuckle dragger, but in this modern show we both left the cave for food, not just me. In revealing that to The Madam she was quick to set me straight. “That’s the problem with this egotistical society we live in. Men really do think like that, and I’m not surprised you did too. It’s conditioned into your gender. Pussy is a privilege, and I mean that when I say it. Just because I’m in a relationship with you it doesn’t give you that right to claim my cunt whenever you see fit. You don’t own me, and I’m not your property. But, women all across this world fall into that, thinking that they are obligated to fuck when they don’t want to, or if the sex itself is just plain bad. I could and can love a man whose incompetent in bed, but never, ever, is my pussy given up to him through obligation..” Obligation. That’s a heavy word. I’m sure there were lots of obligated women I’ve been with over the years, and it really makes you stop and think about the severity of that term. My wife felt obligated countess times to have sex with me. It was as clear as a whistle, and that’s why The Madam’s clarification was so impactful to me. Just fast forward to now. There’s no obligation for sex anymore on her part, and thus she and I don’t have it. She’s free to make her own decisions about sex, and who she wants to have it with. She would much rather wait for her bull than endure my mundane humps. That really puts The Madam’s words in perspective for me. All women are free to have sex when they want to. But I deeply suspect many do out of obligation or duty at times, over desire and want. “Women are under this ridiculous notion that their sexuality is not as important as men’s. They believe the concept of the dominate man and the subservient wife, even though their sex life is vanilla and that notion plays no significant role other than his views sexually of her. Women are sexually powerful creatures, more so than men, and taking charge of that sexuality is a liberating concept to us, and ego damaging to the other gender. Women are taught to tame their sex, wait for marriage, reproduce, and be happy with what they have. Men on the other hand are taught to conquer the world and fuck as many women as they can along the way. Men are leaders, and assertive women are bitches. The double standard is damning. I believe more women would be happier not only with themselves but with their relationships in general, if they introduced cuckoldry to their spouses. And, as you know, cuckolds are by far better mates. I would never have a loving relationship with a bull, their arrogance and over developed masculinity that is desired in the bedroom leaks outward into the normalcy of life causing friction.” Believe it or not I had an ego once. I was the man she described above, at times. I believed I was the cat’s meow when it came to women. Charming, witty, good looking, and that arrogance she spoke of. I wore the pants, made the decisions, and took selfishly. I was indeed the ‘man of the house.’ But I couldn’t fuck. What I possessed was over developed masculinity alright, mixed in with being a prick. I was never a pig in regards to the treatment of women. Don’t get me wrong, assume, or read into my words. I merely felt I was owed relationship sex simply because of my gender. It wasn’t until I was married that I discovered the real needs of women and their place within the relationship. They can govern households, be the bread winner, and desire multiple sex partners, just as a man can. 'Why should/would a woman ever fake an orgasm? But it happens all the time. I have never faked an orgasm, but we’re taught to and were taught our sexuality isn’t as important as mans. How egotistical is that? Men talk amongst themselves and compare notes about a woman’s ability in bed. That’s fine. Women compare notes too. Size, and stamina, but women tend to focus on securing the male ego over their personal pleasure, and sometimes or not, confiding they faked cumming with him.' I still have an ego, but it’s a professional one, and it doesn’t interfere here with us now as it once did. Cucks don’t have personal egos to deal and wrestle with. They’re not arrogant, cocky and macho, and that’s why cuckolds are secure with themselves as their wife lays another. They understand it’s not love she’s seeking, just sex, and most cucks realize early on sex isn’t their forte or part of their ego. Cuckolding certainly played a part in my realization by simply taking me off the pedestal I felt was worthy enough of me. Cuckolding taught me a lot not only about relationships and sex, but about women and the importance of their sexuality. “Closed minded people believe that two people can’t be happy and fulfilled if they don’t have sex together. That’s completely false. Cuckolding gives each partner something. For women it’s good, empowering and deserving sex, with a loving and supportive mate. And for the cuck it’s the pleasure of knowing she’s well taken care of, among other things. In a sense, living his own sexuality through me.” Cuckolding doesn’t work for everyone, as there are too many stereotypes and assumptions by most folks to fully look at the benefits of the lifestyle. What does work for nearly every couple out there is endorsing and supporting female sexuality, and eliminating the standards between men and women. Pussy really is a privilege.  Shared wife -evergreenstatewife |
||||
|
Great post!! So true: pussy is not a privilege! Sadly... my body responds so quickly to -him- that even if part of me is hurt and angry and don't want sex, the other part of me responds and soon over-rides the other.
| |||
|
Great post!! So true: pussy is not a privilege! Sadly... my body responds so quickly to -him- that even if part of me is hurt and angry and don't want sex, the other part of me responds and soon over-rides the other.
| |||
|
Excellent post, and very insightful on the dynamics of sexual relations between men and women. Pussy is indeed a privilege!  Thoughts from the Garden...
| |||
|
Very good reading...thankyou
| |||
|
Great post! Thank you! I wanted to get it linked to my blog so I hurried to do that and forgot to be appreciative that you wrote this! *hug*
| |||
|
I have never thought of pussy as a privilege but you have given us food for though. We enjoy your analysis of the intellectual side of cuckolding. You have some interesting views on cuckolding that aren't found on most sites. Thanks for the thought provoking post!
|
Become a member to create a blog
