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Blogs > TigerFire87 > Sleeping Lionheart

Invisibility  

TigerFire87 36M
169 posts
7/30/2013 10:51 pm
Invisibility
I've had sort of a hard time getting on here lately. For the most part, this site makes me realize how I'm am practically invisible to most women... It may just be all in my head, but I'm turning 26 soon and there doesn't seem like much of a chance of finding anyone anytime soon. Maybe I'm just in one of those moods, but that's kind of how it feels, especially when I see so many other people enjoying relationships or even just sex.

How do you handle your loneliness? Do you find yourself comparing your relationships (or lack thereof) to other people's?

" An erection is like the Theory of Relativity - the more you think about it, the harder it gets. " - Unknown

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TigerFire87 36M
587 posts
8/12/2013 1:25 pm
    Quoting  :
I try to as well. I'm fairly introverted so I only have a few friends (most of which don't have much free time). I think a strong ring of support is very good for a person. I'm glad you are able to have that. It's surprisingly pretty rare nowadays.

I hope you are doing well!
" An erection is like the Theory of Relativity - the more you think about it, the harder it gets. " - Unknown

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TigerFire87 36M
587 posts
8/10/2013 10:15 pm
    Quoting japaneseass:
    just be yourself.....never know...i am pretty sure someone out there...in the end, half of the population is by women...you know...don't give up...and open minded...and just on the look out...26??? you are still young...
Thanks, I try to tell myself that. I just feel like at 26, I'd at least have had ONE girlfriend, you know? I can't seem to get even close to forming a real relationship let alone a casual one. I guess it's just had me down lately...

Anyways, how have you been?
" An erection is like the Theory of Relativity - the more you think about it, the harder it gets. " - Unknown

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japaneseass 56F  
50231 posts
8/9/2013 3:06 am

 just be yourself.....never know...i am pretty sure someone out there...in the end, half of the population is by women...you know...don't give up...and open minded...and just on the look out...26??? you are still young...


TigerFire87 36M
587 posts
8/1/2013 8:39 am

 Thanks, I guess I'm still on the beginning part of the road to knowing myself.

How have you been?
" An erection is like the Theory of Relativity - the more you think about it, the harder it gets. " - Unknown

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rm_ccjazzmin 49F
1641 posts
7/31/2013 5:52 pm

 I do sometimes compare myself to others. Loneliness is not related to status--even married people get lonely, and longing, and jealous, and all that.
But in the effort of knowing thyself, I recognize the signs when I am starting to stray too far down the pity path, and after I have a little cry or scream (or whatever), I force myself to moveon to something else. Vacuuming always works, hand-mopping too. Or Law and Order reruns...
Have the feelings, but learn from them, don't live in them. You'll be a better, stronger person for it.
Ur.Grrl.CC


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