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Alone?  

TigerFire87 36M
169 posts
11/18/2012 5:09 pm
Alone?


Have you ever had one of those moments where you realize just how alone you are? When nothing you would usually enjoy even catches your interest? I'm in one of those moods... I always question why I'm always unsuccessful with women. Am I aiming "too high"? Do I only want what I can't have? I don't think it's wrong of me to want someone I like instead of "settling" (I know that sounds awful, but how many of you would "settle" for what's in front of you?) Sometimes I just feel like I'm expected to like certain gals even though I don't have an attraction to them. I don't know, I guess I'm just rambling. I had a bad day at work related to a gal I asked out a little while ago. Since I asked her, she's seems to avoid me unless she HAS to talk to me. I guess I don't get people, or social interactions or something...

Anyways, I guess I'm done ranting. How do you cope with loneliness? Do you ever feel like you are expected to like or be attracted to specific people?


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TigerFire87 36M
587 posts
11/29/2012 3:47 pm

    Quoting  :

Thanks! I sort of know this, but it's also really hard to apply it constantly. The biggest thing I worry about is not being ready for a relationship if I found said girl. That's part of the reason I'm on here. I need experience and to find out who I am mentally, physically, emotionally, and sexually. I'm not sure I'm ready to settle down yet, but I still want to have fun! hahaha

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TigerFire87 36M
587 posts
11/19/2012 1:54 pm

    Quoting  :

Thanks to you too. I will gladly accept that hug! It's been sort of a weird month, I've been up and down. I'm glad I finally got the courage up to ask that gal out, but I didn't expect her to suddenly become so cold to me...

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TigerFire87 36M
587 posts
11/19/2012 1:52 pm

    Quoting SlenderGal88:
    Chin up, guy. Lets blame it on something, like the holiday season, or the rain, or payday can't come sooner these are reasons for me to break open a chocolate bar or go shopping. You can have your moment, but not for long. It's not allowed!
Thanks. It was nice to have some supportive words coming from somewhere. Most of my friends have moved out of town, and are all super busy nowadays.

If it's now allowed, perhaps some punishment is in order?

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SlenderGal88 57F  
10361 posts
11/18/2012 7:19 pm

Chin up, guy. Lets blame it on something, like the holiday season, or the rain, or payday can't come sooner these are reasons for me to break open a chocolate bar or go shopping. You can have your moment, but not for long. It's not allowed!

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