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Blogs > autumntx > The adventures of Autumn

New life perspective  

autumntx 68F
202 posts
10/19/2015 9:43 am
New life perspective

I've been doing a lot of thinking, soul searching, what ever you want to call it lately. A few weeks ago I had an emotional weekend.... due to some hormone issues... but I think it was a good thing. I realized I was actually kinda lonely and guess I was trying to fill that void with unemotional sex.

Well I decided that I have "seen the light"... what I mean by that is you have to be happy with what you are doing and I decided I wasn't really happy. I realized that by letting myself do that I wasn't really respecting who I am a person.

I look back over the last two years and realize now that all that sex.... some good.... some not so much doesn't really give you a lasting feeling it's just an at the moment high that left me wanting more.

What is that more?

A Connnection.... a friend..... a lover..... a confidant....

No way am I ready for a full blown relationship but am looking for that serious FWB... with emphasis on the "F". When you find that one or two great fwb's you don't have to keep looking for more and more...

I enjoy going out and having fun then coming home to have some "fun" and I enjoy the company of a nice looking man. I may be shallow in some people's perspective but I know what I want and I am done settling.

Why is that so hard for guys to understand?

If you show respect to a woman.... don't just treat her as an object.... you will get so much more out of it. Woman are like old cars you have to warm us up.

Now don't think that we don't enjoy a good round of just sex but that is not all there is and when you have a friendship that just sex is even better.

I'm not thinking that I will meet my soul mate on VisionPersonals.com but I do believe there are some good men on here.

I met a one of those a week ago...

Now back to work you perverts.....
happyf;
Autumn

It's time to start living life like there is no tomorrow!
rm_b_atx 57M
4 posts
1/9/2016 4:55 am

 Autumn, CL is Craigslist. -B


rm_loveya808 77M
122 posts
1/4/2016 7:44 am

 Very well said. You're a "Keeper"!


ford91pu 68M  
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63 posts
10/22/2015 11:56 am

 dont overlook the guy's sitting in the corner, the quiet ones. We have a lot to offer but because we are not hard rock and chisled, or have a package that would put a porn star to shame, doesnt mean we are totally hopeless.

If your looking for that "friend", then maybe you need to start looking in different places.


Notaname99 64M  
568 posts
10/19/2015 10:11 am

 i agree with you. many will agree and some will not. sex without some attachment just seems kind of shallow. you get the thrill but it wears off really quick.


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