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Would you take the lead  

golosa1115 62F
550 posts
11/12/2016 1:02 pm
Would you take the lead
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s2ndegree 65M
9800 posts
11/12/2016 3:48 pm

 That's kinda hard to answer since you made the choice to
cut off those around your age.I wish there was a cut and dry answer but there isn't.Saddened by the reality that it's just
not just you whose better than us.
Using more than all the road!


golosa1115 replies on 11/19/2016 11:37 pm:
Actually I never said I cut off ppl my age, I just stated that I've been kind off lucky to bond with younger man. I have run into the same issue with man my age and older, but when it comes to man in that age grp, I assume they either lied about being single, and weren't able to sneak away from home, or felt guilty.

hrdallnght4u 67M

11/12/2016 4:21 pm

 Us older Men are more responsible..I never forget a Hunny that I am going
to hook-up with..
You can't expect to be Old & Wise..If You were never Young & Crazy!!!


golosa1115 replies on 11/19/2016 11:40 pm:
Lately Idk about older man being responsible. I have been blown off more by man 45 plus than the younger grp. I just don't feel a problem with that, because I assume when it does happen, its because they lied about being single.

boobwhisperer69 61M  
8322 posts
11/12/2016 6:10 pm

 If they don't make you a priority, then don't be available when it's convenient!


golosa1115 replies on 11/19/2016 11:41 pm:
Lol That's usually what I do. than get the nasty text, about being a fake or a flake. thanks for your comment Boobwhisperer69

Otis_Good 71M
4037 posts
11/12/2016 7:06 pm

 Since I have always been the chaser and not the chased I have no ideal .


golosa1115 replies on 11/19/2016 11:42 pm:
Thanks Otis for your comment.

notsure1949 75M
10657 posts
11/12/2016 8:52 pm

 sounds like you got stood up, it seems to happen lots of times on this site


golosa1115 replies on 11/19/2016 11:44 pm:
It happens on other sites too. But I don't consider it the same when a persons been meeting up for over a year

golosa1115 62F
1066 posts
11/19/2016 11:46 pm

 Thanks justahutch for your comment. I believe in chances with a good reason. Yeah forgot sounds like it wasn't important enough to remember.


s2ndegree 65M
9800 posts
11/20/2016 1:29 am

 Are you saying guys in their 30's and 40's never marry?
Look, I appreciate you trying to quell something that to
me is rather emotionally devesating since it is the most
popular thing at this current date and never likely to
change .The sad reality is that
it tends to extricate any purpose or desire to continue
with anything really!Thanks!Enjoy!
Using more than all the road!


golosa1115 replies on 11/20/2016 8:52 pm:
IDK about man in Arizona, but in NYC man seem to prefer to marry once they have lived their fantasy or reached their life goals. Others just never do. Its seem the save age is late 30's early 40's

Its not about suppressing my emotions, I just wanted to know if I was wrong at no longer giving a person a chance. I know I can be harsh, only because I am so considerate about others emotions and time. That I feel that those that don't consider another's time is just selfish.
I think you're totally right, behavior like that does sabotage the excitement of meeting. Thanks again for your comments. Enjoy.

Basilikummen 47M
1006 posts
11/22/2016 9:43 am

 To generalize, at least from my experience, men are simple creatures. If you make things too complex, they get confused. If you want a man, make it easy on him. Write a day, time, and place in permanent marker on his forehead. I'm sure he's interested. He's just lost.
Even an herb as sweet as basil is nothing without its bite.
Lord Basil


golosa1115 replies on 2/10/2017 1:14 pm:
Idk about that being the excuse. I have been contacted to meet on the spur of the moment, being for that same day after work, lets say I was called at 2pm and I was clear to say ok, I will be there by 7pm because I get out of work by 5 plus travel time. I call as I leave my job to confirm that nothing has changed, but get no reply. I call again when half way there, reporting as to where I am at, but yet no answer. I continue, I figure maybe they're taking a nap or went to the store forgot there phone, anything is possible, and I try to give ppl that I already been with the benefit of the doubt. I text reporting how close I am and arrive at the door and still no response, mind you this has happened a few times during inclement weather. I have called at my arrival and it goes to voicemail, I start walking back and I get a call when I am already at the station or in the train. lol

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